In the first photo I noticed that you lady extended her arm and hand out towards the pavement. That is an instinctual movement but can result in some serious injuries. I have done the same thing a few times myself in bad situations and gotten badly injured. It is really difficult not to make those instintive protective jestures, but I reccomend she practices grabbing the bike instead, so she has leverage to eject herself from the bike if needed. My wife learned about that when we hit a ditch on an ATV and she didn't grab the rear bars. Now, my wife practices that every time something startles her on the bike and actually used it to eject a few days ago when I did something stupid at a very slow speed. When I look at that picture above I just picture the bike going on over and jamming her arm into the oncoming pavement, OUCH! Glad you pulled that one out, Good job!
jb