Greg, I think it all depends on how you're built...if you're 6'3" and all legs it would be different than if you are long waisted. At 5'8" with a 29" inseam, the forward controls are as forward as I could stand them. The stock seat on mine was fine for just me, but I added a Sundowner with pillion so my GF could ride with me sometimes. It is a very comfortable seat. There are pics down in the Vrod thread.
The bike is like riding a finely tuned sports car, with almost a chopper feel to it. Handles the curves great, and will literally blow you off the back...that back on the riders seat is there for a reason!!
The bike gets more looks from people than you would believe...I can't go anywhere without somebody commenting about how beautiful the bike is...I was jockying around with a guy in a Porche Carrera (sp?) the other day, and he pulled up next to me at a redlight, rolled down his window and commented on how awesome the bike looks and sounds. Ride one and you'll see....