G’day Ramseyusmc,
I had the same issue with Lucille my 2015 FLTRUSE. The stock bars were painful as they were made for little folks with midget arms. IMHO they copied the design off a wheelbarrow handle.
First thing is to make sure you are happy with the seat as changing the seat changes your grip angles etc on the bars.
Go have a look at
https://brcustomcycles.com/They have a bar measurement guide towards the bottom of the home page.
Get an old coat hanger & use the guide to bend it into a set up that suits your desired wrist angle, arm height & so on. Take the measurements that suit you & then start looking for bars that match your measurements. That way you will end up with something that suits you ergonomically rather than a fashion trend.
I had BRs build mine & have had 7 happy years behind them.
There are lots of options out there so choose your own adventure. Good luck.
Cheers Tom
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