I know what you're saying. I had a used Ultra tour pak painted to match my '04 police EG and it drove me nuts looking at $1,000 sitting in the garage because I never put it on the bike--I ride solo and preferred not having the tour pak on the bike.
I sold the tour pak, but then had the bike painted a beautiful candy apple red and bought another Ultra tour pak rationalizing the purchase using the "just in case" approach--may as well buy another Ultra tour pak to have it painted to match "just in case" I needed it in the future. Fortunately, I was able to buy a brand new '08 Ultra tour pak for $300 (seller had an insurance replacement and was anxious to sell the tour pak and saddlebags)--so it doesn't bother me so much to see it in the garage and it looks great on the bike when I make 3 or 4 long trips each year and use the darn thing.
You probably have the primered lid, and non-matching new tour pak bottom priced too high--hope you have a lot less in the parts than your asking price.
Alternatively, post it on hdforums.com and your may have better luck.
Good luck with your project/sale.
Carl