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Riding with cancer
« on: March 16, 2008, 11:53:30 PM »

Hello everyone,

I am a new poster but a long time HD rider.  In 2004 I decided to sell my Wide Glide and buy a new Ultra Classic.  I sold the Wide Glide and just a few weeks later was diagnosed with a stage 3 colorectal cancer.  I decided to wait until the treatment was over to buy the Ultra. I didn't want to stick my wife with the job of selling the Ultra if the cancer was going to kill me.  Well, long story short, after a number of surgeries and rounds of chemo I thought I was home free.  Last April I decided that I was past the cancer and called a buddy that owns Longhorn Harley in the Dallas area.  I ordered a new 07 Screaming Eagle Ultra and it was going to be delivered in June.  The next week I went to MD Anderson for follow up scans and found out my cancer had spread, with a tumor in the right lung and a lymph node positive in my lower pelvic area.  My cancer was now a stage four with an average survival time of 18-20 months.  I called my buddy at Longhorn and told him I would not be able to buy the bike, again, I didn't want to stick my wife with it if the cancer killed me.  I started treatment again and thought the doctors were going to kill me if the cancer didn't.  After treatment scans did not detect any cancer so the first thing I did was call my buddy back and tell him I needed an 08 Sceaming Eagle Ultra and needed it fast!  It was delivered about four weeks ago and I have spent lots of time on it in the last month.  I live in Southern New Mexico and we can ride most of the winter.  The fact of the matter is that I probably don't have many months left because the cancer will come back soon and will hit hard.  Please don't think for a second that I am whining or need you to feel sorry for me, that is not why I am posting.  I have had 48 great years, a wonderful wife, two great kids and a very good career.  The point of my post is this, enjoy everyday that you have.  While you are on that Harley, soak in every single minute and enjoy every moment.  I was riding today and the peace I find while riding my Harley is beyond my ability to describe.  Ride everyday like it is your last day to ride because none of us really know.  By the way, I don't buy that 18-20 months to live crap either, I am going to beat that if it kills me.  ha   Ride on brothers and sisters, ride on.

Tony
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Re: Riding with cancer
« Reply #1 on: March 17, 2008, 12:02:29 AM »

Hi Tony.  Just read that you had a nice ride on a great bike you love; today.  I'm sure there was lots of other stuff there too.  But that had to be the most important part.  I'm a stranger to you.  But do me a favor if you have a chance.  Have another great ride again tomorrow!
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Re: Riding with cancer
« Reply #2 on: March 17, 2008, 12:20:12 AM »

Welcome from Salem, Oregon! Everyday is a great day to ride and I also find great peace while I am riding. All of my worries are left behind and I enjoy the ride, the scenery, the smells and the thrill of the ride. I am a believer in that it is not the destination, it is the ride. I am glad to hear that you are out enjoying the ride!
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Re: Riding with cancer
« Reply #3 on: March 17, 2008, 12:26:48 AM »

laissez les bon temps rouler - from Bourbon St, New Orleans!    :drink:
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Re: Riding with cancer
« Reply #4 on: March 17, 2008, 01:31:03 AM »

Tony, welcome and congrats on the SEUC :2vrolijk_21:

Glad you are where you can ride often.  The weather in NM is great, I usually get there for some hunitng in the late fall.

Keep it in the wind :bananarock:
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Re: Riding with cancer
« Reply #5 on: March 17, 2008, 02:14:39 AM »



Tony welcome aboard  :2vrolijk_21:

just ride and have fun with your 08
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Re: Riding with cancer
« Reply #6 on: March 17, 2008, 04:51:39 AM »

Welcome to the site from Ontario Canada. I hope you can beat it & I live every day that I ride as ride it like you stole it, because you just never know. Take a ride for me tomorrow. :2vrolijk_21:
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Re: Riding with cancer
« Reply #7 on: March 17, 2008, 05:14:40 AM »

Clearly the most important post from any new member ever. Ride on brother and good luck.
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Re: Riding with cancer
« Reply #8 on: March 17, 2008, 06:54:21 AM »

Tony,
Welcome to the site glad to have you join us. :2vrolijk_21: Ride on, and Livestrong.

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Re: Riding with cancer
« Reply #9 on: March 17, 2008, 02:03:40 PM »

Tony,

Welcome from Oklahoma!

As you have so clearly stated, we all need to enjoy every day......great advise.  Amazes me what it takes sometimes to snap us back to reality and what it takes to make us really realize what is of real importance.

Tony, make your doctor a liar.  Show your doc how a scooter can not only add life to your years, but how your scooter adds years to your life.

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Re: Riding with cancer
« Reply #10 on: March 17, 2008, 02:12:37 PM »

Welcome Tony, glad you enjoy your bike and thank you very much for taking the time to remind us of what SHOULD be of importance.

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Re: Riding with cancer
« Reply #11 on: March 17, 2008, 02:38:01 PM »

Welcome to the site, the saying live to ride ride to live has so much more meaning.  Never give up the fight. 
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Re: Riding with cancer
« Reply #12 on: March 17, 2008, 03:31:06 PM »

Tony, thanks for your post and welcome to the site.  I know you'll keep that positive attitude which is so very important.  Keep it in the wind and keep smiling.  :2vrolijk_21:
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Re: Riding with cancer
« Reply #13 on: March 17, 2008, 03:33:17 PM »

Welcome from South Florida.......and RIDE TO LIVE!!!
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Re: Riding with cancer
« Reply #14 on: March 17, 2008, 03:41:33 PM »

Good afternoon Tony

  :welcome_005: on the CVO website  :2vrolijk_21:

I send you the  :welcome_005: from FRANCE

Best regards and wishes

 :vrolijk_26:  Jacques
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