I've spent a good portion of my life trying to accomplish what others thought I couldn't and another portion trying to keep from doing what someone else ordered me to do.
I have a problem with authority, am above average in intelligence (aren't we all), stubborn enough not to quit when I face resistance and sometimes dumb enough not to quit when I should.
I wouldn't want or appreciate someone else telling me what I could or couldn't do. I do appreciate advice and counsel on how to do things better, safer, quicker, or more profitably.
Michael Jordan's high school coach told him he would never be a great basketball player. Guess he was wrong.
I've been wrong a time or three myself when I told someone they couldn't do something. I have always been right more often when I came along side someone and helped them accomplish what they were committed to get done.
The golden rule is never a bad yardstick. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. That usually means being more helpful and less critical.
With today's technology, there are fewer and fewer limitations on what even the severely handicapped can accomplish.
My dad was a paraplegic. He worked 4 jobs, put himself through law school, raised a family of 7 kids, became a nationally recognized healthcare specialist, was a state senator, and helped thousands of people along the way. In 1943, when he was hit riding double on a bicycle and paralyzed, many told him he would never amount to anything.
While I agree that not everyone SHOULD ride a motorcycle, I am constantly inspired when I see petite women handling large touring bikes or handicapped veterans figuring out how to shift without a leg or ride without an arm. I expect to move to a trike someday because I am passionate about riding and I may not always be able to ride on two wheels.
All this to say, if you are passionate about riding, you should be able to conquer any obstacle that others might throw in your way. If you are willing to take instruction, practice, fail, and get up again. I'll ride with you any time.
JMHO