So far, the wobble thing has been fairly consistent for me in regards to 45-60 MPH speed in curves. I found that with the Dunlops, if my rear tire lost any pressure, the front end wobbled in the curve and under hard deceleration. As soon as I added air, or put new tires, it ceased. I had Michelin Commander II tires put on the bike in the last tire change and so far, no wobble - solid.
I did notice wobbling when riding down HWY 29 south of Hollister a while back, over 115 (Dunlops). My GPS noted a top speed of 121 that day on my '07 Ultra. (In the past, I hit 124 on a Suzuki GS750EZ and 127 on a GL1800, per GPS.) It still felt good, but not quite as stable. I agree with the above statements about the faring and lack of wheel contact with the ground. Those are a bad combination if compromised. But, with the right suspension, that should not be a problem. Unfortunately, I'm still riding the stock suspension on my 07, but that will be changed out in the next month or so.
So many things can be said about speed, but being in the right place, with the right equipment and weather really makes it an interesting experiment, if done right.