Topic: I'll Miss You Mom!!! (Read 13101 times)

Hoist! · « **on:** October 25, 2008, 09:39:21 PM »

It's with a heavy heart that I write this post. I didn't want to burdon this place with what I've endured the last few weeks. But I can let you all know now that Mom has ridden off to her new life elsewhere. She was a great lady who raised a wonderful family. She died proud to know we are all doing well. She got to say goodbye to everyone dear to her and was at peace. She passed in her sleep this afternoon at the Hospice. I feel lucky that I was able to be there to share her last breath with her. No drama, just peace. She's now painfree, and in perfect health for her new adventure in her next world!!!

May she ride forever now with the wind at her back and with clear blue skies ahead! Keep the rubber side down and the shiney side up Mom!!!! Know that we all love you and will miss you dearly. But we'll live on for you and continue to make you proud!!! You'll be forever in our hearts!!! I love you Mom!

Hoist!

RedDevil · « **Reply #1 on:** October 25, 2008, 09:42:04 PM »

Quote from: Hoist! on October 25, 2008, 09:39:21 PM

It's with a heavy heart that I write this post. I didn't want to burdon this place with what I've endured the last few weeks. But I can let you all know now that Mom has ridden off to her new life elsewhere. She was a great lady who raised a wonderful family. She died proud to know we are all doing well. She got to say goodbye to everyone dear to her and was at peace. She passed in her sleep this afternoon at the Hospice. I feel lucky that I was able to be there to share her last breath with her. No drama, just peace. She's now painfree, and in perfect health for her new adventure in her next world!!!

May she ride forever now with the wind at her back and with clear blue skies ahead! Keep the rubber side down and the shiney side up Mom!!!! Know that we all love you and will miss you dearly. But we'll live on for you and continue to make you proud!!! You'll be forever in our hearts!!! I love you Mom!

Hoist!

Howie,
Debbie and I send our deepest condolences on the passing of your mother. God bless her and your family.

Charlie

sadunbar · « **Reply #2 on:** October 25, 2008, 09:43:14 PM »

Howie,

Sincere condolences to you, Binx and your entire family. May your mother rest in peace. God Bless...

SBB · « **Reply #3 on:** October 25, 2008, 09:47:14 PM »

Howie,

Sincere condolences to you and your entire family. May your mother rest in peace.

SBB

pado · « **Reply #4 on:** October 25, 2008, 09:57:18 PM »

We're thinking of you.

Frank and Phyllis

RedFXR2 · « **Reply #5 on:** October 25, 2008, 10:00:34 PM »

Howie, nothing I can say will restore your Mom to you, but as I always say to folks, based on my own experience: We should be glad to have had those fine people in our lives for as long as we did. May God bless you and your family in your time of loss.

MIKEYTEE · « **Reply #6 on:** October 25, 2008, 10:14:12 PM »

Howie,
I send my deepest and sincere condolences to you, Binx and the rest of your family. May your mom live forever in the hearts of all who knew and loved her.
Mike

Hoist! · « **Reply #7 on:** October 25, 2008, 10:16:30 PM »

I can't thank you all enough for these replys! Ya'll make my heart soar like an eagle!!! From the bottom of my heart, I love you all!!!

Hoist!

hard10 · « **Reply #8 on:** October 25, 2008, 10:26:03 PM »

Howie, Linda & I send our deepest condolences and sympathy to you and your family. Remember that we are that we will be here for you in our thoughts and prayers.

Hoist! · « **Reply #9 on:** October 25, 2008, 10:28:57 PM »

Quote from: hard10 on October 25, 2008, 10:26:03 PM

Howie, Linda & I send our deepest condolences and sympathy to you and your family. Remember that we are that we will be here for you in our thoughts and prayers.

Thank you AJ! I appreciate it!

Hoist!

Texas Lurker · « **Reply #10 on:** October 25, 2008, 10:39:38 PM »

So sorry to hear of your Mom passing Howie. May God be with you & yours. Linny

Hoist! · « **Reply #11 on:** October 25, 2008, 10:40:41 PM »

Quote from: TEXAS LURKER on October 25, 2008, 10:39:38 PM

So sorry to hear of your Mom passing Howie. May God be with you & yours. Linny

Thanks very much Linny. Hope to get to see you soon! Be well man!!!

Hoist!

SMOKIN' JACKET · « **Reply #12 on:** October 25, 2008, 10:42:51 PM »

Quote from: Hoist! on October 25, 2008, 10:16:30 PM

I can't thank you all enough for these replys! Ya'll make my heart soar like an eagle!!! From the bottom of my heart, I love you all!!!

Hoist!

Hi Hoist,

What a wonderful heart you must have to write something so sincere about your Mom. Thanks for taking the time to share your family's loss. God bless all of you.

Marie

Texas Lurker · « **Reply #13 on:** October 25, 2008, 10:47:11 PM »

So sorry to hear of this Howie. May God comfort & Bless you & yours. Linny

Unbalanced · « **Reply #14 on:** October 25, 2008, 10:49:27 PM »

Howie,

Very sorry to hear about your mothers passing. I am sure your being there eased her through. Our deepest condolences to you and yours.

-Harry

HogDude · « **Reply #15 on:** October 25, 2008, 10:50:05 PM »

Howie,
My condolences to you and all of your family. Our thoughts are with your during this time.

Hoist! · « **Reply #16 on:** October 25, 2008, 10:51:06 PM »

Quote from: Smokin' Jacket on October 25, 2008, 10:42:51 PM

Hi Hoist,

What a wonderful heart you must have to write something so sincere about your Mom. Thanks for taking the time to share your family's loss. God bless all of you.

Marie

Thank you for saying that Marie. Anyone that knows me knows I wear my heart on my shirtsleeve. I'm an open book as I've nothing to hide. I never speak in fork-ed tongue, and don't sugar-coat anything. So when I say what I say here, you can take it to the bank. Like it or not! Which is why I spend so much time here. We have the most sincere, honest, passionate, selfless, caring people here, and we all better realize that and start treating each other with a lil more respect!!! None of us are here very long and we need to make the most of each day. And we've got someting so special here we need to stop taking it for granted!

Hoist!

Hoist! · « **Reply #17 on:** October 25, 2008, 10:53:01 PM »

Quote from: HogDude on October 25, 2008, 10:50:05 PM

Howie,
My condolences to you and all of your family. Our thoughts are with your during this time.

Quote from: Unbalanced on October 25, 2008, 10:49:27 PM

Howie,

Very sorry to hear about your mothers passing. I am sure your being there eased her through. Our deepest condolences to you and yours.

-Harry

Quote from: TEXAS LURKER on October 25, 2008, 10:47:11 PM

So sorry to hear of this Howie. May God comfort & Bless you & yours. Linny

Thanks so much guys! Just hearing from each of you reinforces why I love this place so much. This world would be perfect if they modeled it after CVOHarley people!!!

And no, I'm not drunk!!!

Hoist!

REGGAB · « **Reply #18 on:** October 25, 2008, 11:08:33 PM »

Howie,
Renea and I send our warmest thoughts and prayers during this time of sorrow. We're always here if you ever need us.

L&R,

Henry

kiwi · « **Reply #19 on:** October 25, 2008, 11:18:12 PM »

Sorry to hear about your mom passing Howie. May all her roads be dry and go on forever.
Kiwi

The Bolvine Gigolo! · « **Reply #20 on:** October 25, 2008, 11:21:07 PM »

Hoist!
Soozie & I are so very sorry to hear of your loss, it's hard to loose someone so close, but like you said and I believe VERY much there pain FREE and in a better place now!

Don...............

Hoist! · « **Reply #21 on:** October 25, 2008, 11:24:53 PM »

Quote from: iselbulls on October 25, 2008, 11:21:07 PM

Hoist!
Soozie & I are so very sorry to hear of your loss, it's hard to loose someone so close, but like you said and I believe VERY much there pain FREE and in a better place now!

Don...............

Quote from: kiwi on October 25, 2008, 11:18:12 PM

Sorry to hear about your mom passing Howie. May all her roads be dry and go on forever.
Kiwi

Quote from: HML on October 25, 2008, 11:08:33 PM

Howie,
Renea and I send our warmest thoughts and prayers during this time of sorrow. We're always here if you ever need us.

L&R,

Henry

Again, thanks so much for these replies. I hope ya'll don't mind me using this place to put my mind elsewhere tonight. I feel comfortable talking to ya'll and it makes me feel good to share my feelings. Thanks for bearing with me!

Hoist!

110tHunDer · « **Reply #22 on:** October 25, 2008, 11:25:37 PM »

Howie, very sorry to hear of the loss of your mom. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family as you mourn her passing.

Love ya, man.

Brian

Hoist! · « **Reply #23 on:** October 25, 2008, 11:28:24 PM »

Quote from: 103tHunDer on October 25, 2008, 11:25:37 PM

Howie, very sorry to hear of the loss of your mom. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family as you mourn her passing.

Love ya, man.

Brian

Thanks a lot Brian!!! Happy to hear from you and hope things are cool on your end!!! L&R man!!!

Hoist!

VaEagle · « **Reply #24 on:** October 25, 2008, 11:31:05 PM »

Sorry for your loss. It is never easy to loose a family member. Our prayers will be for you and your whole family Howie.

David

cuthbertss · « **Reply #25 on:** October 25, 2008, 11:46:18 PM »

Thoughts and prayers with you and your family Howie.... very sad to see whenever anyone loses a parent...we are here for you brother!

Hoist! · « **Reply #26 on:** October 25, 2008, 11:52:07 PM »

Quote from: cuthbertss on October 25, 2008, 11:46:18 PM

Thoughts and prayers with you and your family Howie.... very sad to see whenever anyone loses a parent...we are here for you brother!

Quote from: VaEagle on October 25, 2008, 11:31:05 PM

Sorry for your loss. It is never easy to loose a family member. Our prayers will be for you and your whole family Howie.

David

Thanks Scot and David! Amazing to me how you can wind up having a place like this to turn to. I never in a million years would have imagined or believed that I'd be talking to people on an internet for comort and love!!! This place, cause of all of youze, is unreal!!! This Great Site RULES!!!

Hoist!

Capo · « **Reply #27 on:** October 25, 2008, 11:55:00 PM »

Brother Howie while we have not met I feel and wish I could share your pain and I am not able, that is yours to bear. Keep her memory alive and know she is always with you. God bless, know you are loved by all of us here and be well.

Ride Safe!

Keats · « **Reply #28 on:** October 25, 2008, 11:55:58 PM »

Howie,

I am so sorry for your loss and my family sends your family our deepest condolences and our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.

SPIDERMAN · « **Reply #29 on:** October 26, 2008, 12:02:29 AM »

Howie
I've been dreading this thread since we spoke last Sunday. I knew it was coming and in speaking with you knew also that it was better for your Mom, but I knew how much this was gonna hurt you brother and I am truly sorry. But one thing I know is that you were a good son as you are good man to all who know you. As JR would say, God is lifting her up and taking her into his embrace and she will be at peace. We should not grieve for her but for you and your family who have suffered this great loss. I can tell you that you will read some posts and get some PM's and see some folks from this site whom you didn't even know a scant two years ago and you will find solace in their words and deeds. So for you , Binx and your family I offer my hand in any way you might need it. For your Mom a prayer that she find eternal peace in the heaven of her beliefs.

B B

hunter · « **Reply #30 on:** October 26, 2008, 12:06:00 AM »

Howie and Binx, My sincere condolences to you. The fact that it was expected, never makes it any easier and no mater what you do, you can not prepare for it. Sorry bro.

Fred

hd-dude · « **Reply #31 on:** October 26, 2008, 12:27:51 AM »

Very sorry for your loss Howie, Best wishes to you and your family.

Jim

Hoist! · « **Reply #32 on:** October 26, 2008, 12:37:49 AM »

Please don't be hurt for me lumping some of these together. I truly appreciate each and every response. I can't thank you all enough for all the kind thoughts. It was her time, and she gets a fresh start in some new world now. I'll celebrate her life rather than grieve her death. She'd been thru hell for years, dealt with it all, kept a smile on for everyone else, and did it all with dignity. I wish her a great ride in her new world, and hope I can come close to being even half the person she was! Thank you all for being here!

Hoist!

JCZ · « **Reply #33 on:** October 26, 2008, 12:39:49 AM »

Sorry to hear about this Howie. I know that there aren't words to take away the loss but just to let you know that I pray for you and Binx in this time of need.

Twolanerider · « **Reply #34 on:** October 26, 2008, 12:41:33 AM »

Howie. Have a good glass of Scotch here right now. It's going up to our moms and dads. Those still here and, especially recently, those that have moved on. Cheers all.

Hoist! · « **Reply #35 on:** October 26, 2008, 12:43:19 AM »

Quote from: JCZ on October 26, 2008, 12:39:49 AM

Sorry to hear about this Howie. I know that there aren't words to take away the loss but just to let you know that I pray for you and Binx in this time of need.

Thanks so much JC!

Quote from: TwoLaneRider on October 26, 2008, 12:41:33 AM

Howie. Have a good glass of Scotch here right now. It's going up to our moms and dads. Those still here and, especially recently, those that have moved on. Cheers all.

I'll raise my J & C to that Don!!! Salud!!!

Hoist!

naitram · « **Reply #36 on:** October 26, 2008, 12:56:51 AM »

howie, sorry for your loss, i know this hasnt been easy for you and that you still have alot to deal with. if you need anything we're here for you

Neal...

Hoist! · « **Reply #37 on:** October 26, 2008, 12:59:59 AM »

Quote from: naitram on October 26, 2008, 12:56:51 AM

howie, sorry for your loss, i know this hasnt been easy for you and that you still have alot to deal with. if you need anything we're here for you

Neal...

I really appreciate all your's and Sue's kindness thoughout this Neal. Your support was all I needed and you were there. Thanks!

Hoist!

Guilty · « **Reply #38 on:** October 26, 2008, 01:19:14 AM »

My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. In time, I hope that the sorrow of your mothers passing can be replaced with happy memories of her life of which I am sure she enjoyed. May we all enjoy our life to the fullest and show appreciation to those that we love each and every day.

Hoist! · « **Reply #39 on:** October 26, 2008, 01:25:26 AM »

Quote from: Guilty on October 26, 2008, 01:19:14 AM

My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. In time, I hope that the sorrow of your mothers passing can be replaced with happy memories of her life of which I am sure she enjoyed. May we all enjoy our life to the fullest and show appreciation to those that we love each and every day.

Well said Guilty! Thanks man!

Hoist!

Wrongway · « **Reply #40 on:** October 26, 2008, 02:09:14 AM »

Heavy hearts here in California for the loss of your Mom

Knowing she is pain free and in a much better place is all a Great son like you can ask. Bear Hugs from Donna and I.

Janine · « **Reply #41 on:** October 26, 2008, 02:25:15 AM »

Terribly sad about your Mom's passing, but she is in a better place and will always live on in you memories and your hearts. So very sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Jan

Fired00d · « **Reply #42 on:** October 26, 2008, 03:19:01 AM »

Howie and Binx,
So sorry to hear of the passing of your Mom may she rest in peace and forever be pain free. My thoughts, prayers, and condolences go out to you and your family. God Bless.

Ride Safe,
Fired00d

HogBreath · « **Reply #43 on:** October 26, 2008, 07:12:44 AM »

God Bless you and your family brother. JD and I are thinking about you. If there's anything we can doo...you know. Love ya man.

BADBUD · « **Reply #44 on:** October 26, 2008, 07:17:13 AM »

Hoist,

I am terribly sorry for your family's loss. If you you were closer I would give you a hug. Keep your head up through this difficult time. I will remember your Mom in my prayers.

BadBud

DCFIREMANN · « **Reply #45 on:** October 26, 2008, 07:37:21 AM »

Howie I am so sorry for your loss. If there is anything you need that I can help out with, you know how to find me.

Be Safe

THE DAWG

MikeD · « **Reply #46 on:** October 26, 2008, 07:51:38 AM »

Howie, Sorry for your loss. It was nice to read that she saw everyone before she began her journey with the God. That makes it a little bit better to deal with all around, but nothing is as strong as the love between a children and their Mom and Mom and her Children, so I know it's tough. I'm not big on grave sites, but what has worked for me is planting a flowering tree, or perennial flower bed(something that comes back every year). Whenever I see the tree or flowers whether in full bloom or in the fall, I always think of the person I planted it for.

Tbone · « **Reply #47 on:** October 26, 2008, 08:11:32 AM »

Howie,

I'm am really sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. It is a very hard thing to go thru and I wish you all the best.

Bob

TheVgirl · « **Reply #48 on:** October 26, 2008, 08:14:03 AM »

Howie, sorry to hear about your loss. You, Binx and your family will be in my prayers.

V

Bojiboy · « **Reply #49 on:** October 26, 2008, 08:25:08 AM »

Howie, Lou and I are so very sorry to hear of your mom passing. She sounds like a great lady and was so lucky to have you as a son. It's a very tough time but, as you said, she is pain free now and in a better place watching over you all. Our deepest condolences to you and your family Howie. You are, and will continue to be, in our thoughts and prayers.... Lou and Greg

erniezap · « **Reply #50 on:** October 26, 2008, 09:27:28 AM »

Howie,

My heart goes out to you!

Ernie

Hoist! · « **Reply #51 on:** October 26, 2008, 10:14:45 AM »

Oh yeah, the other thing to wake up to! Thanks again to all for your caring and concern! I appreciate everyone's offer to help. Really nothing to be done now though, but thank ya'll. I'll be making plans today for the funeral tomorrow. A first for me. But as the oldest sibling, I'll take that on. Thanks for keeping us in your thoughts!

Hoist!

The Mysterious Q! · « **Reply #52 on:** October 26, 2008, 10:16:58 AM »

Howie and Barrie. Heather and myself want to offer up our deepest condolences to you nd your family, I had to go through a death of a close family member this year so I know how you're feeling. If you need anything don't hesitate to ask. You have my number if you need to talk. Q

Hoist! · « **Reply #53 on:** October 26, 2008, 10:19:17 AM »

Quote from: FahQQQQ the Lurker on October 26, 2008, 10:16:58 AM

Howie and Barrie. Heather and myself want to offer up our deepest condolences to you nd your family, I had to go through a death of a close family member this year so I know how you're feeling. If you need anything don't hesitate to ask. You have my number if you need to talk. Q

Thsnks so much John! I'll be talking to ya soon!

Hoist!

Buffy · « **Reply #54 on:** October 26, 2008, 10:44:03 AM »

Howie,

I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I lost my mom 5 years ago and I think about her every day. Also my mind is fresh about what you're going through so I wanted to give you my little bit of advice of how to cope with these terrible times.

After my mom died, every time that I thought of her, that achy, burning feeling just above my heart would start and I would feel so sad. It went on for over a year. Think of her, and that sadness would overtake me.

Then one day, I thought of her and I smiled. I thought about all of the good times we had from the days that I was a child, to more recent things that we shared. (This is when I knew that my mourning phase was coming to an end.) Yep, now when I think of her I smile. Oh yeah, I still miss her, but the good memories outweigh the sadness.

May your "smile" come soon.....

BUFFY

mr_magoo · « **Reply #55 on:** October 26, 2008, 11:00:57 AM »

Sorry to hear of your loss.

hdbrad03 · « **Reply #56 on:** October 26, 2008, 11:37:47 AM »

I am sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my mother when i was 17, it was hard. She was one of the first heart bypass surgeries performed. She suffered ever day after the surgery. She passed 3 days before Christmas I still feel it was her best gift. The only regrets are that my children and grandchildren never had her in their life's.

Keep a strong heart and time will pass but the memories will always remind you of the great times you had together.

Brad

Cigarmike · « **Reply #57 on:** October 26, 2008, 11:56:57 AM »

Condolences to you and the rest of your family and your moms friends.

Mrs Rooster · « **Reply #58 on:** October 26, 2008, 12:19:23 PM »

Hoist, we feel your pain and the sadness that comes with the loss of a family member. Mom's and Dad's have to be tough, not looking forward to that one. Hope your heart mends quickly and memories live forever.

Lil-Bit · « **Reply #59 on:** October 26, 2008, 12:43:03 PM »

So sorry to hear about your loss. Losing a parent isn't easy. Lost my dad which was Wrongways' best friend 10 years ago and what gets us through it is remembering all the good times we've shared, even still today. Just keep remembering all the good times you've had with Mom and the pain will get easier.

Donna

hossdog · « **Reply #60 on:** October 26, 2008, 02:41:58 PM »

Hey Howie, Sorry to hear about your mom. It ain't easy loosing a loved one expecially mom. I will say a prayer for you and yours. Mike

pumkinownerswife · « **Reply #61 on:** October 26, 2008, 02:55:25 PM »

Howie, Dave and I are very sorry to hear that you lost your Mom we truly can feel your pain, may the memories you have of her live on forever and comfort you when you need her.

Helen & Dave

JR · « **Reply #62 on:** October 26, 2008, 04:32:05 PM »

Quote from: Hoist! on October 26, 2008, 12:37:49 AM

Please don't be hurt for me lumping some of these together. I truly appreciate each and every response. I can't thank you all enough for all the kind thoughts. It was her time, and she gets a fresh start in some new world now. I'll celebrate her life rather than grieve her death. She'd been thru hell for years, dealt with it all, kept a smile on for everyone else, and did it all with dignity. I wish her a great ride in her new world, and hope I can come close to being even half the person she was! Thank you all for being here!

Hoist!

Howie, your right on what you said!!! When I go, I expect it to be a celebration because I'm going home! If we ever got a glimpse of heaven we wouldn't want our loved ones to come back to this world. Your mom is in the loving arms of our creator! My heart is filled with love for you and Binx! Know I'm just a phone call away from anything you need! I will continue to lift you in prayer as you will be handling the funeral arrangements. God's sweet love to you and your family! Love ya buddy!

The Gooch · « **Reply #63 on:** October 26, 2008, 04:39:39 PM »

Peace to you and to your family.....only time will heal the pain that you all feel today.....over time there will be good and bad days, rest assured that in his time the pain will subside and in it's place, may wonderful memories celebrating your mom's life embrace you each time that you head into the wind!

elvislee · « **Reply #64 on:** October 26, 2008, 04:42:55 PM »

Howie, my sorrow is with you and your family. I lost my Mom back in April and sincerly feel your pain. Your right though, she is at peace and pain free and with others in a world where no evil or bad exists...Best to ya Bro

BUNKERBEER · « **Reply #65 on:** October 26, 2008, 04:56:01 PM »

Hoist, god bless your mom.
Sorry for your loss.

flyingwillie · « **Reply #66 on:** October 26, 2008, 08:06:03 PM »

Howie,
sorry to hear about your Mom. I can only hope the many fond memories you have of a loving Mom will help you through this. Focus only on the good times and celebrate her life.

Bubba · « **Reply #67 on:** October 26, 2008, 08:23:12 PM »

Howie I know that your mom is not suffering now and that's she is at home in God's house...
Jo Ann and I will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

God Bless
~bubba~

LRebel · « **Reply #68 on:** October 26, 2008, 11:31:13 PM »

Howie,

Sorry to hear about the loss of your mom.

From your account, sounds like she was an accomplished mother: She raised a family - Her children are now successful in life - and she didn't let her health keep her down. She got all the important stuff right.

Prayers for God's peace and comfort for you and your family.

Troy

CVOJOE · « **Reply #69 on:** October 27, 2008, 02:40:06 AM »

Howie,
My sincere condolences to you, and yours. It's something we'll all have to face, if we haven't already. Lost my Mom when she was only 52, but she always said she wanted to go in her sleep, in her own bed, which she did. I'm sure she is now in a better place.

Cherish the memories you and your family have of her.

Joe

MUFFMAN · « **Reply #70 on:** October 27, 2008, 04:52:45 AM »

So sorry to hear Howie. It's never easy when a family member or loved one passes on. I can honestly say I know how you feel because I lost my mom to cancer a while back. Time does heal although you will never forget. THE MUFFMAN

roadrunner · « **Reply #71 on:** October 27, 2008, 07:32:01 AM »

Sorry to hear of your loss, may God bless you and yours!
John

kb · « **Reply #72 on:** October 27, 2008, 09:16:07 AM »

Howie May God bless you're Mom and those that she left behind. Sincere regards Kevin

nashalynn · « **Reply #73 on:** October 27, 2008, 09:19:08 AM »

Howie,

We are sorry to hear about your mom. Memories keep those we love close to us forever. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Renee & Barry

J-Carr · « **Reply #74 on:** October 27, 2008, 09:22:18 AM »

Howie,

My deepest condolances on your loss. I hope you and your family make it through this tough time with peace.

Ride Safe,
JC (J-Carr)

Talon · « **Reply #75 on:** October 27, 2008, 09:22:49 AM »

Sorry to hear about you loss, like I said you guys are in our prayers.

I hope you can find some consolation from Christianity's affirmation that death is not the end.
Death is not a period that ends the great sentence of life, but a comma that punctuates it to
more lofty significance. Death is not a blind alley that leads the human race into a state of
nothingness, but an open door which leads man into life eternal. Let this daring faith, this
great invincible surmise, be your sustaining power during these trying days.

- MLK Jr 1963

Hoist! · « **Reply #76 on:** October 27, 2008, 09:25:37 AM »

All these beautiful responses since yesterday morning's thanks! Many of them bring tears to my eyes, but they're tears of happiness from all of your sincerity! I don't know what to say. Thanks, thanks, thanks again for everyone's thoughtfulness and kindness! You people are awesome!!!

Hoist!

Black Diamond · « **Reply #77 on:** October 27, 2008, 10:25:43 AM »

Howie

I can only echo the sentiments already sent to you and your family. Your mother must have been a special woman, look at the son she raised! Your family will be in my prayers.

JW

FLYNDYNA · « **Reply #78 on:** October 27, 2008, 10:53:17 AM »

Howie,

I also echo the sentiments left by the wonderful people of CVO website...your eloquent words and actions are an inspiration, and I thank you for sharing such a personal moment with poise and dignity. God bless you, Binx and the entire family...

Flyndyna

ccr · « **Reply #79 on:** October 27, 2008, 11:12:33 AM »

Are most heartfelt condolences to you, your family and friends who have to endure the pain of the loss. May she find peace and be free of pain forever more. So sorry for the pain.
Your friends, Jamey and Candy.

AMP · « **Reply #80 on:** October 27, 2008, 12:24:23 PM »

Greatest sympathy for you and your family. Losing my Mother was the absolute biggest bruise on my heart so far in life.

Take good care,
Pam and Wes

SilverDawg · « **Reply #81 on:** October 27, 2008, 02:58:41 PM »

Howie,

My deepest sympathies on the loss of your mother. Losing a parent is one of the toughest curves life throws at us. I lost my father over a year ago and still think about him everyday. I take solace in the fact that he is in a much better place than the one he left. Thoughts and prayers in this tough time for you and your family. Let us know if we can help.

John

Spoiled! · « **Reply #82 on:** October 27, 2008, 05:02:20 PM »

So sorry to hear about your Mom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you guys. Just remember she will always be with you in your heart.

Brian and Kathy

Chief · « **Reply #83 on:** October 27, 2008, 07:43:46 PM »

Howie,

So sorry to hear about your Mom's passing. It's good to know there's someplace better to go after we leave here. She's in peace forever.

lilbear · « **Reply #84 on:** October 27, 2008, 10:12:45 PM »

Howie,

So sorry to just now stumble onto this thread. Very sorry to hear of your mother's passing. I know today was an especially difficult day for you. I know in my heart that your mother left this world in peace knowing what a fine family she had raised. We all know that you were a good son to your mother and must have made her proud indeed. You and Binx remain in our thoughts and prayers. Words simply cannot express the bundle of emotions that I know you have been dealing with and will continue to deal with for some time. Just know that we are here for you and let us know if we can help out in any way.

Keep well and best wishes,
Craig

sblade1948 · « **Reply #85 on:** October 28, 2008, 07:58:07 AM »

Howie, We are so sorry to hear about your loss.

d-rock · « **Reply #86 on:** October 28, 2008, 09:03:21 AM »

Howie, Sorry to hear this news.You and yours will be in my prayers. And I have to agree the people on this site are some of the best human beings on this earth. Derek

iski · « **Reply #87 on:** October 28, 2008, 09:09:54 AM »

Howie - sincere condolences on your Mom's passing. Your words about here were heartfelt & expressed your love for her eloquently. A safe bet she felt the same way about her CVO bike riding son - she must have been very proud of you. May she rest in peace - her memories are in good hands with you & those who loved her.

Mike

amigo Jorge · « **Reply #88 on:** October 28, 2008, 12:34:09 PM »

Mi amigo Howie....until now I see this.......From the deep of my heart I send you all my sympathies for the loss of your mom...God bless her!!

Our prayers and thoughts are with you mi great amigo....

Jorge & Martha

Hoist! · « **Reply #89 on:** October 28, 2008, 12:51:11 PM »

Thank you again from the bottom of my heart to all that posted here! It was a tremendous lift reading this thread the past few days. I showed it to my family yesterday. They couldn't believe the outpouring of kindness that's been shown here. They're amazed to know that I've gotten to know and love so many here thru a computer! They send their thanks and love to ya'll as well!!!

The funeral was everything Mom asked for. If all businesses ran theirs like this funeral director does, we'd never complain about customer service again. It couldn't have gone any better, and they did everything Mom asked for without hesitation. The service was excellent. We all got up and talked about Mom a lil. Many more turned out than I'd expected. It was a beautiful beginning to her next life!

We took everyone out to her favorite restaurant afterwards and we ordered all her favorite foods. Then we went back to my brother's house and received many guests offering their condolences. All her kids, grandkids, cousins, and the rest of the family was there. Always makes me wonder why it takes something like this to get EVERYONE together. It needs to be done more often. Life's too short!

Well, I can't say thank you enough to everyone for your support. It really does make my heart soar like an eagle!

Ride hard in your new life Mom! Clear skies, wind at your back, and beautiful roads are ahead for you now! We'll miss you dearly! We love you and just know we're all OK and will all ride on in your memory!!!

Hoist!

CVOMOE!! · « **Reply #90 on:** October 28, 2008, 01:52:30 PM »

Howie. Deepest and sincere condolences and sympathies to you and Binx and the rest or your family on the loss of your Mom.

Regards, Chris

Boatman · « **Reply #91 on:** October 28, 2008, 01:57:37 PM »

Sorry I did not see this when originally posted. Very sorry for Binx's and your loss. Hang in there, our thoughts and prayers are with you.

FUZZNUTS · « **Reply #92 on:** October 28, 2008, 02:01:03 PM »

Quote from: Hoist! on October 25, 2008, 09:39:21 PM

It's with a heavy heart that I write this post. I didn't want to burdon this place with what I've endured the last few weeks. But I can let you all know now that Mom has ridden off to her new life elsewhere. She was a great lady who raised a wonderful family. She died proud to know we are all doing well. She got to say goodbye to everyone dear to her and was at peace. She passed in her sleep this afternoon at the Hospice. I feel lucky that I was able to be there to share her last breath with her. No drama, just peace. She's now painfree, and in perfect health for her new adventure in her next world!!!

May she ride forever now with the wind at her back and with clear blue skies ahead! Keep the rubber side down and the shiney side up Mom!!!! Know that we all love you and will miss you dearly. But we'll live on for you and continue to make you proud!!! You'll be forever in our hearts!!! I love you Mom!

Hoist!

Very sorry for your loss, Like ya said, she's in a much better place now....................Fuzz

the barber · « **Reply #93 on:** October 30, 2008, 09:54:38 AM »

Howie, sorry for your loss.

56FLE · « **Reply #94 on:** October 30, 2008, 09:59:03 AM »

Howie,

My prayers go out to you and Binx.

Abbynormal · « **Reply #95 on:** October 30, 2008, 11:11:10 AM »

Howie,

Just noticed your post. I well know that no matter how old you are, when your mother dies, you are an orphan! Suddenly the world view shifts, and things weill never be the same. Please be comforted knowing that there are many here who understand your loss, and grieve for you.

Hoist! · « **Reply #96 on:** October 30, 2008, 01:33:52 PM »

Thanks again everyone I haven't thanked already!

Hoist!

ultrafxr · « **Reply #97 on:** October 30, 2008, 04:05:15 PM »

Condolensces Howie. Sorry for your loss.

bunt · « **Reply #98 on:** October 30, 2008, 04:37:12 PM »

Howie,
So sorry to hear of your loss, you are right she is in a far better place.
God bless you and yours,
Bunt

tommyo · « **Reply #99 on:** November 06, 2008, 05:48:14 PM »

Sorry for your loss HOIST. We will see her on the other side!!!!

God Speed Hoist's mom!!!

JoMo · « **Reply #100 on:** November 08, 2008, 06:26:33 PM »

Hoist,

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss my condolences to you and Binx.
God bless you and your entire family

Jo Mo NYC

BigLew · « **Reply #101 on:** November 12, 2008, 11:57:41 AM »

Howie I just heard and I feel your pain. I'll remember you and yours in my prayers and whenever God brings you to mind. If I can pray for anything specific let me know. I would be horored to do so. May God's peace that passes all understanding encompass you and yours during this time. Focus on the good memories, it helps with the pain.

God's Speed
Mike

Hugh Janis · « **Reply #102 on:** November 12, 2008, 12:33:30 PM »

Howie, great post about your mother! It's obvious you celebrated a life instead of mourning a loss. I just caught this thread. Be sure to set a place for her at Thanksgiving and give and receive a lot of hugs. Shedding a tear at family gatherings is VERY therapeutic!
Thoughts and prayers,
Jim & Karen

Hoist! · « **Reply #103 on:** November 12, 2008, 12:40:37 PM »

Quote from: Jester Whisperer on November 12, 2008, 12:33:30 PM

Howie, great post about your mother! It's obvious you celebrated a life instead of mourning a loss. I just caught this thread. Be sure to set a place for her at Thanksgiving and give and receive a lot of hugs. Shedding a tear at family gatherings is VERY therapeutic!
Thoughts and prayers,
Jim & Karen

Just caught up on this. Thanks to all that responded since my last Thank You!

Funny Jim, we're doing Thanksgiving at our house with the entire family this year. And that's exactly what we're doing, setting a place for her at the table! Appreciate your thoughts on this!

Hoist!

Dan_Lockwood · « **Reply #104 on:** November 12, 2008, 12:56:33 PM »

Quote from: Hoist! on November 12, 2008, 12:40:37 PM

Just caught up on this. Thanks to all that responded since my last Thank You!

Funny Jim, we're doing Thanksgiving at our house with the entire family this year. And that's exactly what we're doing, setting a place for her at the table! Appreciate your thoughts on this!

Hoist!

Hoist, again my deepest sympathy for you and your family. I appreciated your thoughts about my dad passing.

I too was very happy to have been able to say the things I did for the short time we had left, from his heart attack to his passing three days later. But at 10 days short of turning 95, my dad had one hell of a ride. And ride he did back in the day. Those days being the late 20', 30's and into the 40's. His last Harley was a '37 and he said he loved that bike. But then the family thing happened.

I know you were able to express thoughts and comfort and love to your mother before see rode off into the sunset. My mom passed in her sleep, but not from a long illness. I regretting spend "extra" time with her, too busy I guess to make the time.

My dad passed on the 12th of October and as time goes by I can now speak about him to people without having to stop and take a breath or two. I'm sure that your Thanksgiving will be a good one and all the family and friends will remember her with fond memories.

All I can do now is wish your mom God's speed and no flat tires on her trip.

I've read all of this and I see all the friendship and love here. You've got lots of friends here and they are showing it now.

Take care...

Hoist! · « **Reply #105 on:** November 12, 2008, 01:05:37 PM »

Quote from: Dan_Lockwood on November 12, 2008, 12:56:33 PM

Hoist, again my deepest sympathy for you and your family. I appreciated your thoughts about my dad passing.

I too was very happy to have been able to say the things I did for the short time we had left, from his heart attack to his passing three days later. But at 10 days short of turning 95, my dad had one hell of a ride. And ride he did back in the day. Those days being the late 20', 30's and into the 40's. His last Harley was a '37 and he said he loved that bike. But then the family thing happened.

I know you were able to express thoughts and comfort and love to your mother before see rode off into the sunset. My mom passed in her sleep, but not from a long illness. I regretting spend "extra" time with her, too busy I guess to make the time.

My dad passed on the 12th of October and as time goes by I can now speak about him to people without having to stop and take a breath or two. I'm sure that your Thanksgiving will be a good one and all the family and friends will remember her with fond memories.

All I can do now is wish your mom God's speed and no flat tires on her trip.

I've read all of this and I see all the friendship and love here. You've got lots of friends here and they are showing it now.

Take care...

What a thoughtful post Dan. Thanks so much for the kind words!

Hoist!

gflvette2 · « **Reply #106 on:** November 14, 2008, 11:06:32 PM »

Wow, I'm truly sorry Howie. I didn't know until now. I hope you are taking it well. I know exactly how you feel as my mom is in a nursing home and I go to feed her everyday. As your mom, she is a loving mother and always gave her utmost to everyone she knew. I know your mom is at peace now and I will pray for her. It is with deep regret that I write this. My condolences my friend. I'm sorry for your loss. George

Hobo · « **Reply #107 on:** November 15, 2008, 09:43:14 AM »

Howie,
I just saw your post, I been off line for a few weeks, long story. I'm very sorry about your mother. I just seems like nothing is the same after you Mom dies. My Mom has been gone for almost 9 years, but she is still with me every day of the world, as I know yours will be with you.

Hobo

Jock · « **Reply #108 on:** November 15, 2008, 09:09:03 PM »

Howie,

I have just found this thread and I am so sorry for the lost of your mother. I can not begin to express my thoughts upon this post but know that your lost is her gain.

Keep the faith my friend...

Hoist! · « **Reply #109 on:** November 15, 2008, 09:13:19 PM »

Thanks so much George, Cary, and Jock! Your thoughts are appreciated! All you folks are fantastic!

Hoist!

BalDeagle · « **Reply #110 on:** November 20, 2008, 12:32:00 PM »

I missed this Howie. I'm really sorry to hear about your Mom. At this time in life I think we all question what it is all about and how someone who gave so much can be taken away, never to be seen again.

For me the things to remember are the happy times and the love that was shared through a lifetime. She will always be alive in your thoughts.

My Mum has had to give up her home and is now living with us whilst undergoing Radiotherapy treatment for an inoperable Brain Tumour. Things don't look too good and the chances are slim that the treatment is succesful in any way. Me and Jan are trying to see this time that she is with us as a blessing and that we can share some happy times while she is here.

Our thoughts are with you both.

Nige & Jan

TCinVA · « **Reply #111 on:** November 22, 2008, 08:36:03 PM »

Howie,
I've been off the net for a while. Truly sorry to hear about your mom. Phyllis and I send our deepest condolenses.
Tony

Chrome O · « **Reply #112 on:** January 06, 2009, 07:43:56 AM »

Hoist,

Very sorry to hear of your loss, but hopefully you will ride with her again on the big sky way. My sincere condolences prayers and thoughts.

Michael

Hoist! · « **Reply #113 on:** January 06, 2009, 09:12:32 AM »

Quote from: Chrome O on January 06, 2009, 07:43:56 AM

Hoist,

Very sorry to hear of your loss, but hopefully you will ride with her again on the big sky way. My sincere condolences prayers and thoughts.

Michael

Quote from: TCinVA on November 22, 2008, 08:36:03 PM

Howie,
I've been off the net for a while. Truly sorry to hear about your mom. Phyllis and I send our deepest condolenses.
Tony

Quote from: BalDeagle on November 20, 2008, 12:32:00 PM

I missed this Howie. I'm really sorry to hear about your Mom. At this time in life I think we all question what it is all about and how someone who gave so much can be taken away, never to be seen again.

For me the things to remember are the happy times and the love that was shared through a lifetime. She will always be alive in your thoughts.

My Mum has had to give up her home and is now living with us whilst undergoing Radiotherapy treatment for an inoperable Brain Tumour. Things don't look too good and the chances are slim that the treatment is succesful in any way. Me and Jan are trying to see this time that she is with us as a blessing and that we can share some happy times while she is here.

Our thoughts are with you both.

Nige & Jan

Holy Crap! Sorry I missed these. Thanks for your kind thoughts Chrome O! And thanks so much Tony and Nige! Hey Tony, how've you sand Phyllis been man? Healthy and Happy New Year to you all!!!

Hoist!

49445CVO · « **Reply #114 on:** January 06, 2009, 09:14:22 AM »

Thinking of you and your family in your time of need

Rick and Michelle

Hoist! · « **Reply #115 on:** January 06, 2009, 09:21:30 AM »

Quote from: 49445CVO on January 06, 2009, 09:14:22 AM

Thinking of you and your family in your time of need

Rick and Michelle

Thanks so much Rick & Michelle!

Hoist!

Miss Kitty · « **Reply #116 on:** January 06, 2009, 10:29:20 AM »

Never think of yourself as a burden. We are all hear to share in your pain and to keep you lifted up in prayer. Afterall, isn't that what friends are for? I will be praying for God to give you and your family comfort in your time of suffering and ask that you be lifted up and held in his loving embrace. God bless.

Miss Kitty

Hoist! · « **Reply #117 on:** January 06, 2009, 11:39:03 AM »

Quote from: Miss Kitty on January 06, 2009, 10:29:20 AM

Never think of yourself as a burden. We are all hear to share in your pain and to keep you lifted up in prayer. Afterall, isn't that what friends are for? I will be praying for God to give you and your family comfort in your time of suffering and ask that you be lifted up and held in his loving embrace. God bless.

Miss Kitty

Thank you for your kind words Miss Kitty!

I just noticed you joined us today! Welcome and enjoy this GREAT SITE!!!

Hoist!

hdhog1 · « **Reply #118 on:** January 22, 2009, 10:37:44 AM »

Howie,
It has been difficult for me to finally look at this thread. I wanted to hear the words from the passionate man who has been posting here for so long. There is no finer tribute to a good women than that of a son. We are stubborn, proud, heelraisers and usually a thorn in their ass. Daughters on the other hand are usually less troublesome.

Too few men ever realize the quiet, protective and adoring bond of thier mothers. Sadly fewer still ever let her know. I too know I am the man I am today because of my mother. My father gave me logic, strentgh and perseverence. My mother gave me love, understanding and compassion.

The passing of my mother two years ago was both sudden and tragic. The pain and loss are still heavy in my heart. She lived with me for 4 years, I was able to provide her the golden years. I am extremely proud and honored she chose me over my siblings.
To that my friend, let me offer a toast. To two wonderful women to whom we owe everything. From two proud and adoring sons who love and miss them immensely.

Randy

tlr · « **Reply #119 on:** January 29, 2009, 08:32:49 PM »

hdhog1, very well said and very touching.

Hoist, I see how late i am to this. I sincerely am sorry for your loss. I too am dealing with my Mom's deteriorating health due to her progressing cancer.

Ted

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