Mine are blue, does that mean I can change them to red?
It is a good part number Mark. Just checked it at Chicago HD. Now in a B revision so they've even corrected a few generations of problems from the original. $116 at Chicago HD.
Also took the Clymer manual with its several years schematics to the thrown and studied for several minutes. It makes it look like the same three wires are used for sending unit functions from 02 to 05 (book doesn't go past 05). It also makes it look like there's a pinout difference in where those wires are placed in the AMP connector. But, if that's correct, it's no big deal.
At least from an electrical perspective I can't see anything in these Clymer wiring diagrams that would keep a gauge that is functional in an 04 or 05 bike from working in an 02-03. For that matter I also didn't see a resistance lead anywhere in the harness that would necessitate the resistor you described to change the impedance.
Am wondering now if the difference is in some way physical but that seems not to be the case either. 03-07 Road King tanks are the same. There is a difference between 02 and 03 on the bottom. But Kuryakyn's gauge fitment is 02 and up so any physical difference shouldn't involve the hole for the gauge.
Maybe the termination point is different between 02-03 and 04-07? So the length of the harness from the gauge is different? That wouldn't be obvious in the schematic but would account for a fitment difference the way Harley needs this stuff to be plug and play for the masses. If so that's easily altered as needed.
Once again still don't know for sure what it is we don't know. But the wiring diagram I looked at, combined with knowing the sending unit is the same in 02 and 05, makes it look like any gauge that functions in an 05 should function in an 02. Even without the resistor you found yourself forced to add (as notoriously inaccurate as these things are also have to wonder if the resistor might be adjusting for normal inaccuracies too).