Try tightening the 2 lower allen bolts that attach the header pipe bracket to the trans cover. It is tight corners, you may need to cut an allen wrench down to fit in the space to tighten the bolts.
For others that will inevitably run into this problem, in my case the two bolts where loose.
I took the exhaust off enough to take the 2 bolts completely out.
Once the exhaust bracket tension was off by removing the single bolt and nut that goes thru the header, the 2 cover bolts were so loose the I could remove them with my fingers. Yikes!
I have been talking to several HD techs and this is not uncommon. I removed those to bolts completely and red loctited them and retorqued to 18 ft lbs.
I guess IMHOP if any of you were in a circumstance where you have your header off... take the opportunity to remove those two bolts and get some thread lock on them.
Thanks to all for your help.
Now I am out to check the trans oil level and take it for a spin.