I got a kick out of the title of this thread. When I first thought about moving from my Deuce to a bragger the first thing was "Dang this heavy". I'm 5'-8" and 145 lbs.
Since that day and a few 10k miles later on my Streetglide now when I hop on my buddies Deuce I think "Dang this thing is tiny".
Perspective is everything.
Yep! It's all in what you're used to. I've always ridden Touring bikes, so, don't know anything different. I did ride my friend's Heritage one day - and it felt small, lightweight, and very maneuverable. But it just wasn't COMFORTABLE for me... I can't imagine riding a Softail for more than an hour without being in pain.
I think the Touring bikes have better very-low-speed handling than the smaller bikes do.
My wife's little Ninja 650 feels like a child's TOY to me. I'm actually kind of scared to even ride it because I hate my feet being right under my butt and pointing down, and having to lean forward because of those silly little bars. It's not a position my body has ANY desire to be in at all!
Ken