Thanks for the tip. I will give that a try if all else fails. I don't have any experience buffing and polishing and I hate the thoughts of my first attempt being on my new CVO limited.
Talked to the good folks at HD and it is not a service bulletin that came out but a tech tip. I pulled it up with my dealer and it actually looks like a fairly aggressive procedure to remove the imperfections. Not sure how I feel about letting them try it giving the miserable outcome of the buffing that they have tried previously.
I know exactly how you feel. I had no experience with a DA buffer either. I had to learn though, and spent a lot of time researching to get to the bottom of it. If indeed you have soft clear like I do, you are going to have to deal with it. At least if spider scratches bothers you. If I did not mention it in this thread in my email exchange with Gunslinger the lead painter did give me a little hope, namely that the clear coat will continue to harden "some" (How much is some?) for up to a year.
I can tell you this. The procedure I described is about as safe as you are going to get. If you use a DA polisher with a foam polishing pad along with the Ultimate Polish it has hardly any abrasive at all. As I said it is VERY mild. You actually have to work the affected areas a significant amount of time before the scratches go completely away. This makes it safer for a first time user. I am sure if I were to use a more abrasive polish I could get it done much faster, BUT I want to leave as much clear behind as possible. With this combination it is almost impossible to screw up anything. Try it on a car in an inconspicuous location first and you will immediately see what I am trying to describe. Hope this helps.