BB,
Tell me it isn't so man! You living in Kimchee land and not being able to ride LD or Elvis!

I was there (KR) for just over a year, but a long-long time ago so some things have changed of course.
But concerns:
1. Heating & cooling. It's colder and damper than most other places and humid as hell in the summer.
2. If you're not on the right kind of (govt) contract you most likely won't have (legal) access to US govt/mil facilities for shopping or medical care. Big issue is medical care, you can always buy most things on the economy I expect but medical treatment and any Rx's could be an issue maybe.
3. Stay away from the winter kimchee, it's awful smelling and tastes worse. Summer kimchee is OK. (see #4)
4. O.B. beer is OK in large quantities.

Sochu is terrible, as far as sake type of stuff.
5. Lots of LAFM's there, but you're married so that recreation is out huh? Great massages are available.
6. Makalee (sp?) houses where you get the homemade wine and cook at the table on a hibachi are fun.
7. You'll need some heavy duty furniture as most of the local stuff is made for their frames.
8. "Honeybucket" carrying old guys are to be seriously avoided , especially after drinking and in any narrow alleys.
9. You're gonna need some serious SATV there, so put that in your package if you can.
10. Don't drink the tap water, at least when I was there it was a painful aftermath on the ceramic throne.
11. Lots of gastonomical adventures there to be sampled, but some unidentifibale. (See #10)
12. Go to a local moviehouse and enjoy the raw squid being passed around on sticks.
We can talk about more over a beer and Maker's my next trip down to SD.

Joe