You might be better off trading your bike. If you are looking for something to go wrong everytime you ride, you are never going to be happy. The next owner will not have the same problem, they will most likely ride the bike and love it. I agree, those of us that bought 07 and 08 CVO's should not have had the problems we have faced, the good news is the factory is trying to fix them and if you have ext Warranty, they will keep making any repairs needed. I think they are great bikes with a few weak area's. I have owned new Evo's (required complete top end rebuild), new Twin Cam 88's (Cam bearing problems) and new this 110. They have all had issues.
I love the new frame on the 09's but will hold off buying a new bike until they come out with a new motor. Next time I will wait a year or two after introduction.
If money is no object, I would buy the new 09, If money is a consideration, like most of us, I think the best advise would be to make needed repairs and keep your bike until Harley comes out with a new powertrain. Good luck with your choice.
Scottt