By shim, I mean having to do some custom fabrication to the housing to adjust the position of the bulb to better center it in the designed location relative to the reflector for proper focus. On the automotive side, I've seen folks take the housing out of the mount, and manually adjusting the bulb in/out, up/down in a controlled environment to help get an idea how to better position the bulb for enhanced performance. Once that is determined, use the dremel or similar to do the required adjustments, then epoxy the custom bulb mount. More often than not, it's usually a depth issue, but frankly could be anything.
Again, this is a non-issue with parts designed the work together, but I've heard countless horror stories from folks buying these universal kits, and ending up with nothing but headaches. Good lighting is just not somewhere you want to cheap out.
BTW - Getting back to the modulation of LED's, I'm not sure of that logic as many of these same players offer flashing LED's for directionals and even brakes lights. Besides, the TL's have a 3 year warranty and if they last that long, I would think that's good enough to confirm reliability.
If I were in your shoes, I'd cut my losses and try to ebay that 'kit', and get something that actually works. The vendor doesn't know how to fix it for good reason.