Now in hind sight I'm thinking even my mother disliked me

Devastating!!
Now back to business.
True the flicker is slightly worse when the bike is not running, ie, just with the key on. Also all the connections are tight and new and the module is a plug and play. As for the Kury tail lamp, when i unplug it completely or replace it with the Incandescent bulb from OEM lamp, the flicker is almost 90% gone, so no doubt that is part of the issue, but the feedback through the ground (according to badland) is the rest of the issue. Also they suggested adding a diode to the power side near each signal to erase all remaining feedback if any (as last resort). They didn't think i'd have to go that far though.
The connector at the harness under the seat has only 6 wires, my guess is this:
- Orange/White - Tail Lamp Running (?)
- Red/Yellow - Tail Lamp Brake (?)
- Blue -Lic Plate Lamp (?)
- Brown - Right Signal light
- Violet - Left Signal light
- Black - Ground
...so the blacks must all join up somewhere rear of the connector and there must be one black wire heading forward in the bunch to get to the frame near the battery through the harness?... So what I think you are saying is that the signal grounds can be cut at this point under the seat (rear or the connector) and not affect the ground at the centre???