Scrrem,
Something sounds a little fishy about this. As Twolane mentioned, you need to know if this quart disappeared gradually over the 5k miles (absolutely normal if it did), or did you have no consumption for 4k and then used a quart in the last 1k miles. Makes a huge difference.
Now for the fishy part - the MoCo will not authorize warranty repairs for oil consumption unless a controlled test is run first. There is a copy of their policy and procedure actually posted on this site somewhere detailing how the dealer is to perform the test and document the results. So the gentleman who told you that you needed valve stem seals could be right, or he could be having a slow month and figured he could increase his income with an unnecessary warranty repair and fudged consumption test. If it were me, I would run a controlled test first before I let someone go inside my engine. Real easy to do, basically fill to normal full level (hot) and record mileage. If you prefer to check the oil cold, let it set overnight and then mark the dipstick (a light line scratched with the edge of a flat file works well for this). Check the oil level at regular intervals, say every 200 miles, measure and record the variation from the line on the dipstick. Do not add oil unless the level drops below the add mark, and always check under the same conditions (hot versus hot, cold versus cold) that you used for the first check. If you have a real consumption problem, it should be evident in the first 1000 miles. BTW - plugs can also be black from an over-rich mixture, or a too cold plug. Were the plugs black and wet, with oil on the threads, or were they black and dry?
Jerry