The picture you posted helped a LOT.
If you notice the connection that is resting between your index and middle finger it is not filly pinned with CAN + and CAN -, nor are those signals pinned on J28 (the 35 position connector) of the radio.
I'm assuming, of course, that the wrapped side of that connection is coming from the main harness on the bike.
What is interesting is I'm not sure what the wires that ARE pinned on the bike harness side are for. In general, bikes with the new 100w/ch audio system do not have the 6B ineterconnect harness, so I'm not sure what that DT-06 connector is supplying. I wouldn't trust that it is wired as a 6B and missing the CAN signals only.
More than likeley you'll need to create a fully populated 6B in order for the iPod and NIM to function.
Hope this helps.