Thanks for the advice and ideas from everyone!
I did have them open up the cam chest to look for anything out of the ordinary, but they didn't find anything wrong in there. Oil pump still looks OK too.
I think it did give a couple of warning signs that there was a problem, but the mechanic didn't connect the dots in time. It was making a lot of tappet noise on one of the front lifters prior to the failure. I took it back and asked them to check it out. They adjusted the lifters and mentioned that the adjustment didn't seem to be working right -after turning the motor over a couple of revolutions, the adjustment was off by a small amount again.

Mechanic thought there might be a problem with the new S&S lifters...
It still made the tappet noise when they gave it back to me (before the arm broke), and when I asked about it they called it a "harmonic noise" and told me to go ahead and ride it.

The new rocker arm seems to have quieted things down substantially, but it does have a little valve train noise at about 2100 rpm now. It seems to go away as soon as the engine gets away from that rpm -I think! I only had a short conjugal visit with the bike last weekend and I won't get it back until next weekend because they are ironing out a problem with the upgraded clutch. I'll know more in a few days...
As Twolane described it: I just wanted to put this out there for informational purposes only. I think there was a (fairly rare) problem with this rocker arm from the beginning and it died from a birth defect.