I had the 40 MPH wobble on decel with my 2012 FLTRXSE. Over strenuous objections, the mechanic at Longhorn HD cranked down my neck bearing so that it made barely 1 swing. I told him if he didn't, I would do it on my own. Now, the wobble is mostly gone. I actually like the slightly tighter steering better.
Two things...
My '12 FLTRXSE was far worse steering wise than my '09 FLTRSE3 ever was.
Both had neck bearings adjusted multiple times... better each time. I think the dealer techs were afraid to crank down on it.
Finally... the wobble was almost gone on the '12, but when pushing the right bar while coming into a long right sweeper, I could feel the bar pushing back at me in a cyclic motion.
Apparently the D407/D408F is a dual compound tire... hard in the center, but softer on the sides for more bite.
Good in concept.. but it appeared there was a spot of "hard compound" on the right side of the tire. this was only noticable with the bike leaned over in a long sweeper... but not on the left. New tire fixed it... so far 7K and no issues since.