I have had few very close calls. One day, a girl pulled in front of me and her back bumper got within a foot of my from wheel at 70 mph, needless to say that I slammed on brakes and barely managed to control the bike slipping and sliding all over ( my RK doesn't have ABS). When I caught up with her at next lite, she just smiled and said she didn't see me.
Maybe I should ask Patrick (NightRodX) and his friend Mark if they were annoyed by my lite since I rod over 400 miles behind them during NJ Hooters Run.
Your hi-beam wasn't annoying at all, just adequately bright. I didn't even realize you were running high's til you mentioned it here. Day and / or night it was fine from my perspective in front of you. In fact, the only thing I noticed was that you didn't have AUX lamps which I think we both agreed was a kind of "miss" for a $30K Road King. Guess the MoFo needs another $300 or so from each of us (assuming you go HD lamps)
Personally I keep all three lamps on day or night with my SERK. I have no doubt 3 beams improves your visibility and I just think it looks better anyway, even parked. Certain conditions seem to provide (to me at least) slightly better long-range vision by switching the high beam on at night, at the expense (IMO) of visibility by others (cars) and near-range beam width.
I remember another thread somewhere here where the how-to's of running high beam with AUX lights was discussed. I think I might consider doing that but my next change for SERK lights will be an HID conversion of all 3 lamps, main beam first. Got HID on one car & they're just so much better at throwing light out, plus they improve visibility by other drivers quite a bit.
Oh, one last thing. On my V-rod I run high beam all the time now. Doing so has made a noticeable improvement (to me at least) in many fewer cut-offs, drivers pulling out in front, etc. I leave it on day & night - it's just not bright enough to be annoying actually. The main factor in headlight annoyance is how they are aimed. You aim a headlight to shine right in anyone's mirrors who is driving in front of you, and you're going to annoy the hell out of them, low beams or high.