Wow Jerry,
I can only guess the flack you'll get for that! Claiming that anyone should tone down their pipes is heresy in the biker world. Of course I've been a heretic my whole life so I guess I join you and catch some flack.
I've always felt that the right to stretch your arm ends where my nose begins. Laws like helemt laws and seat belt laws that tell me how to live in an area that does not effect others are out of line. And for those who claim a burden on society if I end up a veggie, pull the plug and save the cash! And BTW, I wear a seatbelt in a cage and a helmet, long pants, gloves, over the ankle boots and armoured riding jacket.
But loud pipes do effect me. I don't like to hear them while sleeping, or sitting out in the yard in a residential neighborhood. Particularly, since most of the yahoos in my area who put them on don't seem to able to tune the damn bike afterwards and it crackles and spits and backfires. Instead of sounding cool I think they're dweebs and I laugh at them.
So let's go to the "Loud pipes save lives" story. I had straight pipes for a time on my '94 Sporty. No Baffles. LOUD. Used to run it up about 60 and turn it off 1/4 mile from my house and coast in to avoid pissing off my neighbors. I know what it is to ride a bike with loud pipes. On 4 different occasions with loud pipes I came up on the left side of a car, who hearing the noise of my bike, looked over their left shoulder to see where the noise was coming from. Mission accomplished, right? Not quite. As they looked over their left shoulder they drifted left. Into my lane. Of course some of you will now yell at me, "But how many times has someone pulled into your lane without looking?". Quite a few. Both with and without the loud pipes. So "Loud Pipes Save Lives!"... I say Bullchit! You have stories where they did, I have stories where they almost caused an issue. It's alert riding that saves lives.
So here's the real problem. Wheres the balance? Bikers argue vehemetly against laws restricting loud pipes. Meanwhile the idiot like I was with the straight pipes, or the dipchit kid with the NOPI tuner car or crotch rocket that sounds like a pissed off bumble bee, or the car audio system that will cause ears to bleed (but still sounds awful) have all caused everyone to over react. And now those that want a resonable pipe that gives some performance increase are going to pay the price.
And you will pay the price... It's too late to stop it now. Don't believe me. My son now has to wear a uniform to PUBLIC school becuase too many parents let their girls come to school dressed like hookers... I'm talking young teens who would make the cheerleader thread here. Guys dressed like gang bangers with their underwear 12 inches over the top of their pants and the crotch at the ankles. This is a rural school not the city. Some tried to say "Hey let's tone it down a bit here, but a few threatened to sue and we all ignored it, and now its WAY overboard in the other direction. Colored polos without any logos and kaki pants, no jeans or t-shirts. PA just adopted a No Smoking in ANY Restaurant or Bar that get's more then 20% of it's revenue from food. Because the smokers wouldn't give at all 30 years ago, the non-smokers pushed til it's now more accepted to do a line of coke in a bar then light a smoke (I'm a non-smoker who believes in smokers rights).
So for all the years that you've not pushed bikers to be reasonable in their pipes, you brough it on your self (ME INCLUDED). Now we'll be lucky not to all have to sound like GoldWingers in the next decade.

Flame Away... I can take it. My wife just bought some very nice stuff in New Hope a few weeks ago. They have some very nice adult clothing stores in New Hope. Hate the town, over priced beyond all recognition, but dang do they have some hot clothes for the girls. So I'm mutch to happy to be upset by the venting.

Ride Safe,
J-Carr