The simple answer to your question is, YES, you should be concerned!
First, let's get the description of those two clowns straightened out. They are in no way, shape, or form qualified technicians or mechanics. No qualified person would give you the BS answers they did. I wouldn't let them change the air in the tire of my wheelbarrow.
Second, what is the gauge reading when the oil is cold? If it's reading 50 - 60 psi hot, it should be pegged when cold.
Third, is this a relatively new issue or has the pressure been high since day one?
The gauge should be checked to make sure you don't just have a bad sending unit or gauge. This is very easy to do, by installing a certified mechanical gauge where the sending unit screws into the engine case. If the mechanical gauge indicates the oil pressure is within proper tolerances, then obviously the gauge or sending unit are defective. No big deal, test each part and replace the bad one. If the mechanical gauge indicates you really do have high pressure, then you need a real technician to find the restriction (bypass valve, passages in the cam plate, passages in the cases, etc.) that is causing the high pressure. Worse case scenario would be a blocked oil passage that isn't allowing oil to flow to certain parts of the engine. That's why you should be concerned. Lack of oil flow does very bad things to engine parts.
As for the "high pressure is good" statement, the highest pressure is attained when a constant volume pump is trying to force a fluid into a totally blocked passage. Just a little food for thought.
Jerry