Welcome aboard from Minnesota! Glad you've joined the fun. You'll find tons of info here to both save you money and help you spend even more! Any wife who wants her husband to have a new motorcycle is an instant friend of mine and a candidate for sainthood. Nurses are the same. My sister is a nurse and to spend your life helping others in such a specific way is worthy of our honor and appreciation!
Hope you find just the scoot you are looking for! Keep your eyes on the "for sale" section of this forum. Member bikes come up for sale regularly and they frequently have been treated with extra special loving care, slathered with performance enhancing upgrades, and showered with mountains of extras. A great way to get into a CVO without buying new and then spending a few $K on the necessary modifications. Members here also have a proclivity to trade out for the newest model so you'll find CVO's new enough to have the suspension upgrades you are looking for.
I have found throughout my purchasing career that people who buy top-end stuff usually take good care of it.
As far as rides you need to take, If you haven't done the circle tour around Lake Superior, I would highly recommend it. Did it last fall and it was stunning! I'm sure riding around the other Great Lakes are just as nice.
Enjoy the ride!