I feel for ya boys... I'm uniquely lucky and my problems seem small.....
I spent...
22 yrs of military service in Special Forces and then Special Operations... point a) there's not much I need a weapon for.
next, 22 yrs of military service in Special Forces and then Special Operations... 100% VA disability. point b) Everytime a fly farts in a surrounding county, I'm allowed to feel like I am in immenent danger. (that makes everything self defense)
Next, 22 yrs of military service in Special Forces and then Special Operations... I have a federal permit that is recognized in most states, (not all), which enables me to carry the weapon of choice to put said villian into the appropriate frame of mind to diffuse the situation in most areas that I ride in.
NEXT, I travel at alomost all time with a big, huge, easily visible, very intimidating, almost overdone, completely on display, .... smile, with a good sense of humor to go with. It has served me better than any weapon I've carried. (but I still carry the weapon, and if the F&%$(#*&$%R don't laugh at my jokes, I'll shoot 'im dead and say he was killin' me!)
And yes, in case your wondering, the flavor today is my Kimber .45 AirWeight Commander...