I bought the same bike for my wife last year with the 103/abs package. She now has it partially blacked out and it looks sharp.
Hope you wife gets to ride as much as mine does, all the time even when I am at work.
Hers has the ABS and 103 and Security. No way was I buying her another bike with out ABS.
My wife rides all the time, works part time as an MSF instructor and a Riders Edge coach. She rides about double the miles I ride a year. Her Heritage, a 09 we got Jan 31 of 09 had 85K on it in December when I picked this one up for her, so not a full 3 years.
She had this new one in for the 1K service the 6th day we had the bike.
I work off shore, so I am not on land 6 months a year.