I feel sorry for ya dude, the problems are there, and you got this HD s..t dumped on you. I have lost a lot of faith in HD lately.
Since I own an 01 Dyna, I reall haven't until recently taken much notice of the way HD been going. My 88 went to 95, then supercharged. I ran it for 7 yrs, 3 with the supercharger. I had no failures of any kind. I now run a T124 S&S for the last 5yrs with repairs costing a total of $12.
A friend here bought a new CVO Street Glide, and being up on the issues, took it with 0 miles, spent another $3500CDn to have the motor reworked. They checked runout first, it was .004(brand new). Retrue and weld was the first step. Retuning, >030 gasket, porting and new catless exhaust
I know HD people are fanatic about the HD dream, everyone wants one, but would anyone buy these bikes if they had any other name attached. The perfect example of this is the new Indian, could have been a world leader if they hadn't made it from garbage imported from the 4th world economies. Result, catastrophic failure, both business and customer wise.
I believe now after spending the last two months reading about all the issues that basically start in 03 and get worse, that the HD customers have to take HD to account, stop buying their "profit above all for HD".
I wouldn't even consider buying anything new from HD until they can prove it is serious about building a competent motorcycle.
I hope you get your HD all sorted out and she runs 100,000 miles. twinotter