OK, saw this post the other day and thought I might be a little late getting in, but since it is still active, here are some thoughts.
The "Band of Brothers and Sisters" that own Harley's, and especially CVO's, obviously have a common interest. That interest brings us together and gives us the right to comment, brag, share, complain, and generally rant (good and bad) about our common interest. But like a family, we can pick on each other, but if an outsider tries it, look out. You have to walk a (few thousand) miles in our shoes, then you have earned that right. That stated, we are riding high performance machines that many of us tease into giving us every ounce of speed and torque we can possibly find, and (many of us) push the limit of the equipment and ourselves to, and over, that edge frequently.
Yeah that makes them break, yeah we complain, but we learn, and we go back and try to make them better. That is not "negativity" IMO it is part of the experience. Some of these posts have honestly stated that the Goldwing (for example) is great but it doesn't rock you, kiss Grandma, you just rode your metric cruiser.
We're gonna argue, we're gonna fight a little, we might get loud and we might go out back and roll up our sleeves, but when a guy needs some help, needs a tow, even needs a few bucks for his kid's team, he finds it here in the HD riding family. Whether you have had a problem with your bike, or a dealer, or even the MoCo I contend that it is better here than elsewhere, and Honda's have problems too, and so does everyone else.
OWL