Spiderman, I am the last one who would ever be "PC". If I was I would have just blindly agreed with your post.
In a way, we are all posers. I enjoy many things. Such as golf, but I am a poser because I am not that good and I don't earn any money doing it. But I do have good clubs and dress appropriately and know the proper etiquette.
I also enjoy boating. I have a nice boat and all the proper equipment. But I am not a captain and earn no money from my boating. So here I am a poser as well
I also enjoy playing racquetball. I have good equipment and play a couple times a week. I look like a real player, but alas I am just a poser as it is something I enjoy only on occasion.
And the list can go on and on.
My point is, to each their own. So what if there was a group of guys getting together for a boys weekend at Laconia and having a good time in their own way? Just because someone else's way of enjoying themselves does not fit into your mold of what a "real biker" should be, who cares? If you have been riding a bike for 30 years and someone else for 2 years, does that make you better than them? If you have been on this site for 12 years and someone else for 2 years, are your posts more valid because you have been here longer?
As far as internet forums go, I see so many people posting things behind the security of their computer screen and their relative anonymity. Some people become more emboldened than they would normally be when face to face. So when I see people post how tough they are, or better they are, or not having tolerance for others then I like to point some things out. We were ALL newbies or unexperienced at one point or another in our life. For those of us with experience it's our job to help guide the newbies along. I love this site because it's taught me so much about Harleys that would have taken me many years to figure out. So my learning curve has been dramatically shortened and has saved me much money and many headaches. And this forum has very little drama, it's mostly just straightforward facts, especially when compared to many of the other internet forums that are nothing but drama and BS
I do love a good cigar, once in a while when I can. I can't smoke at work or at home as my wife detests it. But if I go out for a boys weekend, yeah I might have a cigar or two. Am I a biker poser? You betcha, but I don't care. I enjoy riding my bike and will do it my way for as long as I can. If that offends you, then so be it. But isn't that also part of the freedom and independence of this country and riding Harleys? To be able to enjoy those things in your own way?