What you accomplished by increasing your torque values beyond the MOCO spec has brought you very close to the torque values specified by Cometic for their gaskets!
Sadunbar, I'm glad you noticed that. Since the '07 used the factory "Cometic" gasket, that's exactly the spec we used. On the '08, the new composite gasket was used. Since the repair was on the MoCo's dime, we used the plus five pounds that Tech Services approved.
While I have no complaints with my dealer, the poor quality from HD will force a choice if there's another failure. I'll either dump Harley altogether or have it rebuilt myself as several of you have done. The dealer had to fight Tech Services to get what I wanted; they tried to make them replace only the head gasket w/o replacing the shifted liners, and they also wanted the dealer to use the old rings. HD is an amazing company, they really believe that all these failures are the fault of the customer; wow!