Forget "trying to quit". You either do or don't. That said, what worked for wife and myself was to say "
I don't smoke". Get rid of ashtrays, lighters, don't let other people smoke in the house, take a dirty ashtray, put a little water in it, swirl it around, then sniff it.
That was after 2 1/2 packs a day in 1975. Haven't smoked a cigg since then. Realized I don't really like 'em.
Of course, I
do like cigars, but that's different.
(no it's not)
YES it is!
(no, yer still getting nicotine through yer mucosa)
SHUT UP!
(ok, deny it, but you know it's true)
YOU CREEPY LITTLE JERK, LEAVE ME ALONE!
(you know I'm right)
NO YOU AIN'T! dang, where's my meds?