My son is 28 and when he was 17 a girl told him he was a dad.
Problem as I saw it was it couldn't be, timing was all wrong. I sent his ass to Hawaii to work with a friend of mine for that summer. After about 90 days she makes the announcement.
I had it figured, based on jr. high birds and bees class that unless it took 11 months to have a child he couldn't be the dad. Anyway, baby was born premature in February and he works a job, plays on the HS baseball team and spends all kinds of time with mom and the kid through the remainder of his Junior year.
I never let them in the house. Told him if he would simply get a DNA test to be sure I would be "all in", otherwise don't bring the kid here 'cause I don't want to become invested if it isn't his. Summer comes and goes and in September, with the baby now 7 months old the county wants to be paid for the Hospital fees. He hadn't signed any papers accepting being the father so they issued a summons for a DNA test.
The mom had been coming up with excuse after excuse about doing one, but a court ordered shut her up. BINGO, not his kid. Don't you love science? Anyway, so it goes.
Now he has just sold a house he jointly owns with a young lady he met in college and they have been together for five years or so, bought the house together (against better advice), she ends up in another relationship, dumps my son and wants out.
Best part of this deal is the house sells in two days, boyfriend dumps her three weeks later and now they are getting separate new living quarters. So no, don't need to be grandad just now, but hopefully when the time comes under the right set of circumstances all will be fine.