I did like you, I read a lot of posts & research, talked to a lot of people. It's how deep do you want to go. I ride aggressive ( so told ) in the curves, some times 2 up. bike changed characteristics in handling while on 9k trip 2 summers ago. was told that it was overloaded, tires needed to be replaced, etc,etc,etc. after talking with phato 1 at MV last summer, I went with the HD premiums for the rear ( for now) as a start. made a big difference on the rear. doesn't feel like a rigid frame on the expansion joints or other bumps. the front still feels like its worn out, so I'm thinking, change the fork oil to start, maybe 15 or 20 weight & see what that does. then maybe front fork kit ( maybe HD premium there for the money) BTW there's a dealer in ohio that beat my local dealers price on rear HD premiums by almost $100 including s&h.