One more comment I would like to address. I am not sure what about Jerry Palladino any woman would find insulting. He has as many women riders in his videos as men and even his wife is on them. IMHO, there would be a real hard reach for anyone to find themselves "offended" by anything I watched or heard him say.
I've got the 5th edition of his DVD and he does like to joke with the ladies, but I've never seen him get out of hand with them, but then he's on video too. I don't know what he's like in real life. Then again, I've seen his wife kid right back with him too. Maybe he was a little "sexist" in his earlier vids but if so, he seems to have toned it down by my 5th edition.
Overlooking all personal things...the man can ride a Harley and so can his wife and their crew. His video helped me a lot, which helps even more when pulling the Bushtec.
As to the question at hand, it depends on location, but I usually keep her in first at a busy intersection.