I consider the "water cooled" to be a bit of a misnomer, designed to mislead the public into believing they have solved the heat issues. It has a one quart capacity, and is designed to help keep the cylinder head temps around the exhaust valve under control. Nothing else!! Your 310 degrees is the cylinder head temp, not oil temp. The overall temps of the engine has not changed one degree imo. You mention you added slipons too, that only made an already lean engine run leaner.
HD cares nothing about your comfort, only the bottom line which is profit. If you really want it to run the way God intended an aircooled engine to run, open up the intake, change the exhaust eliminating the cat, change out the cams to one of the aftermarket ones like T24D or GMP577, and then have it professionally retuned on a dyno by a competent tuner! Air cooled engines, require a completely different set of rules to run right, 14.6 afr's will never work properly.
Harley has been fighting to keep their V Twin alive for some years now. As emissions have gotten strickter, the fight has progressed to survival!! The results are what your seeing now, an engine on the verge of destruction amost all the time. HD will eventually be forced to either build a proper liquid cooled v twin or go the way of the dinosaurs!! Everyone says that if they build a bike with a rad, they are done, I say bull, the vast majority of followers will buy the next greatest thing.
Maybe not!! they've proved they can't design a compensator, or a hydraulic clutch, I'm not sure why I could think they could redesign a complete engine/ frame package. There has never been a perfect Harley! Compared to what the Japanese can and do build, hell even Brigg& Stratton does better engines. And trannies. ANd clutches and so on.
I sincerely hope that someone at HARLEY wakes the hell up, or they'll be gone!! I own an 01 Dyna, S&S engine, most everything else modded for better life and performance. Wouldn't trade it for the world, but its not really a Harley anymore either. I'd never even consider a new HD under any circumstances. twinotter