I just bought the clutch lever 2 weeks ago. Love how the lever can be adj closer to the grip. Makes the clutch use so much easier (less force) by not having to use my finger tips to pull the clutch in. I have small hands myself.
I think the concern of some not getting their clutch to disengage is when they are set at position 1 and a thicker than stock handgrip??? Mine works flawless with the stock CVO grips and in pos 1, (closest to grip).
With that being said, the lever is such that you hand is now placed a little bit further out do to the adj dial. So those with small hands, will find that now they may have to reach a little with their thumb in order to control the hand controls. In a sense, trading 1 issue for another. On the other forum, someone bought the lever and had the same experience as I and have removed and are selling their new lever for a good discount. I am removing mine and going to buy another stock chrome lever and have it bent a bit. At least it will match the brake lever again. just my opinion on the operation of the Oberon lever