Jerry, i realize you are an old grumpy fart, but respectfully, as a guy who rides a 13 year old CVO, what do you know about what the dealers are doing these days? If you buy parts from an HD dealer and they install it, you have a receipt evidencing same. If that ends up causing a problem, the dealer is on the hook as well as HD as their authorized dealer. At that point, do you care who pays to fix your bike? By law, in a product liability claim, you can go after everyone in the chain of distribution.
In spite of HDs Fine, EPA Settlement, Mandate, whatever,,, This is nothing new,,,
I went through a similar issue on my '09 SERG in 2013 after a lifter failure took out the Engine, (SE Stage III Kit), My Dealer GM learned a lesson on that one, he stood behind his word and replaced everything except the chrome Engine covers. To reinstate ESP I was required to (per Harley) to run everything stock (including cat & tune), the GM was told that if his Dealership made any mods, any mods at all, to the Drivetrain while under ESP that they would talk about jerking his flag (Franchise)... So, with help from my Dealer, we went to Plan B, aftermarket parts, no ESP, and he would stand behind it, worked well until the Owner sold to one of the "used car dealers"...
Yes, you probably have legal recourse against your Dealer in the events that you outlined,,, I'd be curious to see how that works out for you? I have enough difficulty with dealerships being a "good customer"... It might be different for you? just a recent hobby? After 43 years on HDs I don't want any other Bike...
As far as correlating having a new CVO serviced at the Dealer to be considered "current", LMAO! There are folks (some of them are on this Forum) that are on the cutting edge of HD Technology, developing new Technologies for HDs, that don't set foot in a Dealership unless they absolutely have to...
As far as Jerry being "current",,, In my years on CVO Harley, I've garnered tons of good information (all models) from reading Jerry's posts, never found anything to be even remotely incorrect,,, IMO Jerry is a great asset here

"Another Grouchy Old Fart"