Don, as far as oil comsumption, it's never seemed to drop from where it ended up on the dipstick after an oil and filter change.....
This is the head that was replaced, but they only replaced the casting.
Your replacement cylinder head would have come with seats and guides installed. If you are pushing oil through a valve guide, it is possible although unlikely at 17k miles that a valve guide has excessive clearance. The most likely issue is the valve stem seals need to be updated; that is if in fact you are pushing oil through the guide. For what it’s worth, if you are not having oil consumption issues, I would advise you not to mess with it.
It is my understanding that HD changed valve stem seals in 2005 and some early 2006 models. The change was to incorporate the lower valve spring collar with the valve stem seal; a one piece unit. This apparently caused some distortion, allowing the seal to pass some oil. The early one piece seals are black in color with a silver metal “seal ring” near the top of the seal. The next generation seal was black seal with a green seal ring. The latest seals are black on the bottom half and orange on the top half. The way I understand it, the black/orange seal is the one you want.
You should be able to remove the rocker covers and do a visual to confirm the seal arrangement that you have. Keep in mind that the black seals could be sealing just fine, and replacing them may not solve your spark plug issue. Again, if you are not using oil, I wouldn’t mess with it; JMHO.
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