for my 07, one of the first things I did (after Rineharts, SERT, Ness A/C) was get the king size clear wind screen along with the triple pouch that mounts inboard for goggles, dollar bills, garage opener etc
I love the look of the lower / tinted screen but the big one just works better - I'm 6'2" / 230#
Also I added accessory lights & relo'd my turn signals off the bars to the light bar (I do not understand why this wasn't part of the CVO package except that the Moco had to leave something else to sell us....)
on my list this year is the tour pack, maybe XM too. And a Le Pera seat, the stock one's just not very comfy after about 3 hours.
Possibly going to add the matching passenger footboards but nothing urgent there.
maybe some LED's to dress it out, not sure. I've got a whole list of things I want to do with the Vrod this year too, so I'll just do whatever's on my mind at the time I guess.