Hammer,
As for performance you will more then likely get better HP/TQ numbers with a 2 into 1 setup. And you are right you can get the falsey to give the look of duals, so you can keep the balanced look if that is what you are after.
Your best bet is to find someone that has the pipes you are interested in, look, listen then decide what pleases you both by looks and sound. What would really be the best scenario is if they have the same motor setup as you have or you are going to achieve. With that in mind if they have dyno sheets of what numbers they are getting would really be help in making a decision. Keep in mind no two motors are exactly alike, but there information will get you "ball park" figures.
For me when I was deciding what I wanted I rode friends FLHRSEI2, which had, Stage 1 done on it (Rinehart's, Power Commander, SE Stage One Breather). I then went and talked to mechanic that would be installing and got their recommendations. I added the above modifications all but the PC, my mechanic likes the SE Race Tuner better, and since I was going to have him dyno bike I went with RT.
I'm not sure what you've been hearing about Rinehart’s, but I'm happy with them, and have had no problems either. When I was deciding I knew I wanted true duals, and looked at Bassani "Power Curve" and Rinehart’s. After hearing them both, and actually talking to the person that had the Bassani's he stated that if Rinehart’s had been out when he got his pipes he probably would have went with Rinehart’s.
BTW my last bike ('96 Fatboy Stage III Motor) I had Vance & Hines Pro Pipe H/S (w/Competition Baffle), which I absolutely loved on that bike, and the numbers it put out were impressive. For that bike the look was awesome, and the sound was great. It wasn't a "straight pipe" obnoxious sound, but man would set off car alarms. [smiley=laugh.gif]
Bottom line it's going to come down to personal preference. Take your time absorb as much information as you can, then decide.
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Ride safe,
Fired00d
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