Thanks for all the replies!

My problem is my unique situation. I bought the bike through the military overseas sales program (I'm in Japan), so my "dealer" is just a guy here who sells bikes & several brands of cars. The scan & email off all the paperwork, and then arrange delivery to whatever dealer you have them send the bike to. Unfortunately they don't have a dealer in Hawaii they work with, so I can't have it directly shipped there.
So my first contact with a dealer will be when I get back to the states and pick up the bike (scheduled for delivery 24 April). I plan on riding it for a week or so, and then taking it back to the dealer to re-crate and ship it to Hawaii.
I guess about a month out I will give the deal a holler, Downtown Harley in Seattle. Should be an interesting delivery, as they are actually opening a new facility on the 25th of April. Bad things is, since I am not really buying the bike from them, I'm pretty sure I'm not gonna get any great hook-ups... especially since I'm not even staying in the local area.
I do have the vin #, so I wonder if I could just apply for a membership myself, and then they'll just tack on my free year when I get the bike? Anyone use the HOG discount to ship a bike? How significant was the discount?
Thanks for all the great info! I take back all the bad stuff I've said about you Hardley guys over the years!