Okay. Great discussion!! Here is how I (we) ride:
I weigh anywhere from 190-200 depending on the amount of ribs and beer I have consumed (the previous day...don't drink and ride!) My wife 120 max if she gains another 5 pounds. I ride 2 up most of the time (85%+). When we are doing day rides we ride with the average gear most do. When we travel for a long weekend somewhere we use a trunk bag, a bag on the luggage rack and the saddlebags stuffed with tools, chaps, raingear, sunscreen, etc.... as I am sure most do. I would say an average of 30 pounds publicly, but more like 40 realistically (including all the aforementioned bag compartments).
We live in Florida but love to take the occasional trip to NC, North GA and of course Kentucky for ribfest. The main complaint my wife had about the suspension I had on my last ultra was that it felt like it wanted to "lay down" in the corners as well as slow speed turns (turning into a restaurant from the main highway, parking lot etc). I had 440's on the rear (stock length) and a progressive spring insert in the front which cost about $100 for the springs. Don't know what they were called.
I do not ride overly aggressive most of the time, but don't mind being able to do so. I want a great handling suspension but not so stiff I feel like I am on a sport bike. I want to be able to take a corner aggressively but still have the smoothest, softest ride possible. I want to not have to tap my wife on the leg each time we are approaching an overpass, bridge or RR crossing so that she can lift her butt off of the seat so it doesn't jar her spine.
Yes, If I am paying $600-$1350 for any suspension, this is what I want.
Which would be the best choice for our riding style?