I went to my HD dealer's engine builder this morning and showed him the responses here and asked him if we should consider going another direction, either on pistons, cam, gaskets, milling parts, or any other suggestion. My engine builder spends half of his time building racing motors for the owner of the dealership, who races competitively. He has a high end machine shop and has vast engine build experience.
He said he intended to bring the compression down to about 10.3. I didn't understand what squish is so he showed me some stock heads and 110 heads and explained the difference. He does not want to put a .030 gasket in my bike with these pistons because he said over 5,000 rpm there is a chance the valves could hit the piston, at least that's what I thought he told me. Based upon the base circle of the Woods 555 cam, he recommended SE Perfect Fit pushrods +.030, because they are stronger, lighter, and he's seen slight wobble in adjustable pushrods at times when he's put them on the lathe. He has a software package that simulates engine build performance, and he put all the Woods 555 specs into the program, the adjusted compression to 10.3:1, and some other variables, and told me when he's done with the job, I won't be getting detonation, and this will be a good build. So I'm going with him. He said they stand behind their work and will fix it for free if there are problems. Sounds good enough to me.
P.S., he didn't speak highly of the Rev Performance EMS tuner, because of several things, including the control for certain adjustments is out of your hands.