I already have S&S lifter's to replace the HD's.
PROBLEM
The problem is that bore for that lifter is to tight. It was tight pulling the bad lifter out...had to use Vise grips to pull the lifter out but just assumed it was because the bad lifter had deformed..but I put one of the good ones in that hole and it won't even slide in there.

You will be happy with the S&S lifters.
I had them in my last 3 bikes and never had a problem with them.
One motor was a built 88, the other 2 are CVO 110's.
Didn't have the same bore problem you are having though.
Just wanted to let you know IMHO you made a great choice on the lifters.
Big Dave
P.S, I also put S&S cams in these bikes and they worked well for me.