Thanks to everyone here for all the great threads to help me do this job myself.
Fullsac X-pipe, 2" baffles, and TTS tuner.
This job took me about 8 hours, including two 45 minutes delays for trips to the dealer. The first trip was to get a new header gasket, I managed to mangle one trying to manipulate it into the front head. The second trip was for a new crossover pipe gasket which I also managed to mangle trying to fit the crossover back together. It was a very tight fit and the more I pushed, it created a shoulder in the gasket. So, I tried to remove it so I could spread the opening (there a re 4 slots on the pipe) and it didn't go so well. No problem with the new gasket...went right together and only cost $4.29. I would recommend having one on hand for those doing this job. A spare header gasket doesn't hurt either.

The grinding on the baffle welds was a PITA, then actually getting the baffles out was more of a PITA. I found that pounding the whole muffler down onto a piece of carpet was the best way to get things moving in the right direction.
The TTS part was easy (I am a computer guy by trade). Saved my factory map, then uploaded the map Fullsac sent.
The bike sounds exactly like I had hoped it would. Not loud, but louder, and has that Harley low tone rumble I was looking for. Definitely less heat. Definitely more power. I couldn't be happier.