I have some experience with Evos. I am not familiar with the EV2 cam... but the Andrews EV3 cam is a fairly high-duration cam commonly used in lighter bikes like the FXRs.
Regarding the carb, the main jet and the idle jet have almost nothing to do with one another, and the main jet really doesn't come into play until about 3/4 throttle. If your main jet is too big, it can cause the bike to not have as much power at near WOT or full WOT than it does at lesser openings. Many people think that making the WOT throttle mixture way rich helps - but it really doesn't. Of course, the stock main jet is almost certainly going to be too lean, which will also yield reduced power at WOT.
I played with many idle and main jets on my '95 FLHTP, and eventually settled on a 185 main, and probably could have done as well with a 180. I settled on a 45 idle jet, which is not something the MoCo ever offered to my knowledge. I used aftermarket jets.
One of the best ways to get max performance from a CV carb is to use a Sportster needle from around 1988, set one ring up. There are better aftermarket slides, too, that perform better than the stock slide.
Is does sound as if the entire fuel system needs to be thoroughly cleaned and the carb cleaned out, if not totally rebuilt, and the jets looked as well. Lost of gook builds up in CV carbs over the years.
The site
http://www.harley-performance.com has a wealth of information that would be useful to you.
I installed their Stage 1 carb upgrade kit, and it worked wonders:
http://www.harley-performance.com/stage-1-carb-kit.html It replaces the diaphragm, main spring, jets, bleeder tube, etc. It's well worth the money.
Good Luck!
Ken