I really love riding the Breakout and did a 14 hour ride over two days to NY last week. I was shocked how comfortable I felt doing 7 hours a day in the saddle. It was very relaxing and I did not get fatigued as would happen after about 2 hours on my previous bike (Softail Custom).
The bike still drew a crowd whenever I stopped but I felt myself wishing that no one looked to close. No one did but it is sad when you have to fight just to get what you paid for.
I had the same experience when I went to visit 2k in NC, 1100+ miles over three days and no aches and pains at all. Also this past weekend I rode over to Clifton for the antique bike show and the BO was a bigger hit than the antiques and various and sundry baggers and metrics. It's just a great-looking bike.
You are having way too many problems with this particular bike, which is very different from my personal experience. The only paint issue I had, rust on the tank, was fixed within 3 weeks of being reported to HD and so far no other problems whatsoever.
I don't remember if you mentioned contacting HD customer service directly. My experience with the direct interaction was very positive. The dealer was giving me a hard time about the rust so I called HD customer service. They asked for a picture of the problem area, which I emailed to them. Within 24 hours they called me to tell me I have a new tank for the bike and wanted to know which dealer I want them to send it to so it can be replaced.