Words like "thinner" and "thicker" don't mean a whole hell of a lot, that's why we have industry standards for things like lubricating oils. Synthetics are not inherently "thinner" than dino oils, regardless of the wives tales from the last century. The truth is that synthetics naturally have higher viscosity indexes than dino oils, and dino oils typically require large doses of viscosity enhancer additives to reach VI levels approaching those of the typical synthetic. And the SAE grading system for motor oils is based on real viscosity testing that doesn't change depending on the type of oil being tested. In other words, a full syn oil that tests out as a SAE 50 grade falls within the same viscosity range as a dino oil that also tests out as a SAE 50.
I'd love to see a true scientific study comparing a full syn SAE 50 to a dino SAE 50 in terms of sound damping qualities, lifter leakdown performance, etc., but so far I haven't been able to find such a thing. If anyone has a link to a real study, as opposed to more opinions based on nothing more than thin air, I'd appreciate it if they would post a link to it. There may in fact be some slight difference in a Harley engine (or not), but all I've seen or heard so far from anyone is unsubstantiated opinion. Opinion isn't the same thing as proven fact. One "fact" I do know is that people can convince themselves of all sorts of things. You say the engine is noisier after changing from the dino oil to the synthetic. How did you measure that noise level, did you do an instrumented test right before and again right after the oil change? Or did you just go for a ride or two and tell yourself the engine sounds a bit noisier? Did you factor in to your results the thought that the engine was a bit tighter right after the overhaul, but less so after running it for 1000 km? Could the noise level have been slightly increasing as you broke it in even before you changed the oil? That's been my experience with new vehicles, especially Harley's, even though the same oil was used from day one.
My point is that without instrumented testing under controlled conditions, people can say anything they want that fits their agenda and then everything quickly turns into a meaningless back and forth of unsubstantiated opinion often based on nothing more than "I read it on the internet".
Here's an idea for you. If you really believe this "thinner" story, get yourself four quarts of SAE 60 full synthetic and try that. Amsoil sells one, and Redline sells a 20w60 as well if you have cold start concerns running a straight SAE 60.
Jerry