Thanks, things are how they are bro...
I think the class and controlled riding practice on the little bikes gave her the confidence she needed, I reccomend it to anyone starting out...mtii.com , I think.
She got the pressure from the salehole for a sporty but they are a little heavier at the top, she found that to be true for her...The fxdl fit my wife ok with the stock seat, we put a narrow ass little "reach" seat she fits flat footed.
I supported her for the "big kids bike" because I could ride it too and I dug the green color change and black!
I have another friend who is small and she found a 883 low, she is very happy with it.
I'll post a pic of it later, I don't have one on this machine...Thanks again for the kind thoughts