I've been riding now for about 25 years on the street. In my humble experience, I've found just the opposite of the "Ride like you're invisible" works best. You need to ride like you own the road- to an extent. The more "out there" you are, the more visible you become. Yes, there is a point at where you become "another f$&%^@n biker" and an opportunity for some stupid cager to run you down; [highlight]but those people are much fewer than the ones that simply don't see a motorcycle.[/highlight] Safety/reflective clothes and such won't necessarily be the ticket either. Point in case, in the 80's when I was in the military they started requiring you to wear "bright clothing" and most of us wore the standard orange safety vests. I'd been riding for about 5 years at the time. For some reason I had not had a close call to that time. The first week I had that stupid vest on, I had a car pull out in front of me. Mind you, I'm was riding a large bike (much like a Road Glide) with a bright orange vest. The only other really close call I've had was in Europe where I had truck pull over on me. I was running about 150mph and he was doing about 65mph. He just never saw me. When I went by, the truck jumped about 2 feet back, must have scared the crap out of him. But my point is, ride like you belong there. Don't be afraid to "take charge". [highlight]But be ready for the moron that still doesn't see you. [/highlight] When the wife and I ride, usually she's the one that gets cut off. The cage's see me, but not her. On a bright blue SERG, no less. If you want to call it dumb luck, so be it, but it works for me. I've done the experienced course twice now. It's definitely worth doing. Every instructor has a different approach so you'll learn something new each time. If nothing else, you'll feel more comfortable on whatever you're riding.
Arcticdude, in essence you're saying what I meant... I always ride as if the other guy doesn't see me, then I'm not surprised that he doesn't. Happens lots o' times, and I don't even get excited anymore. Sorta like "Yeah, I knew you'd do somthing stupid, Azzhole." So, I'm glad we agree!

When you ride with your wifey, who leads...you, or her? Of two bikes, is it the first bike that isn't seen, or the second?
I mostly let my wife lead (she knows the best way to get there anyway

) She rides at her comfort level (quite good, actually; she's a road captain in our HOG club, not to mention the Director of it 8-)) At times maybe I'd like to go faster, take off harder, corner harder, but that's okay, she's no slouch... and I can always goharderfaster when I'm by myself. I'll do anything to keep her from danger or harm.
When we come to an intersection or other crossing involving another vehicle, I move around in my part of my lane, weaving or whatever it takes to break up the hypnotic trance of the opposing vehicle. Just some odd, unexpected behavior that the opponent subconsciously registers and maybe makes 'em take a second look, by which time we're past (hopefully).
We've been considering modulating headlights for both bikes. We ride with all 3 front bulbs on. She's got the saddlebag spoiler lights on her RK and I'm gonna get 'em for the seeg. Plus, considering other rear lighting. Gotta love them LEDs! Had 'em on my RK and made my azz real visible.
Garz [smiley=smoking.gif]